At first everything was rosy. He filled me with details, tried to impress me, made me feel special. Today I feel that there is nothing left of that. I’m the one who keeps looking to connect, surprise, have gestures… and he simply takes the relationship for granted. He doesn’t care how I feel, he doesn’t make an effort to show me anything, as if it was no longer necessary.
I know there’s still affection, but I feel like I’m pulling the car alone. Has it happened to them? How did they handle it? Is it worth continuing to bet on someone who no longer makes an effort? I’m 27 and 34, I being the girlfriend I’m dealing with it [he doesn’t]
We’ve been dating for 2 years. But we were friends for 8 years
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Have you tried telling him how you feel?