another post in this community inspired me to write this:
my mum once gifted me flowers on my sons birthday, because it was me giving birth and doing the actual labour that day. it made such a huge impact on me!
so a couple of weeks back when the baby of my sister had his first birtday, i bought all three of them, mum, dad & baby, presents, because they all contributed to that day. i think i will make a tradition of it 🙂
(i got them books. baby got a brightly colored picture book, my sister got the latest trendy novel, the dad got a book with funny short stories.)