Basically, how much do you trust condoms to prevent pregnancy without being on secondary birth control?
I (25f) just recently got out of a nearly 4 year relationship. I am bisexual and was with a woman so pregnancy was not on my mind at all. I am not close to dating yet, but I know I will be one day and there’s a chance I might date a guy again. And I know I wouldn’t want to go on birth control ever. But I still want to have a good sex life where I am not constantly paranoid in the moment because of the thought of getting pregnant.
I have a super limited dating experience. It’s so crazy because when I was 18 with no money to my name, I never thought about this with my high school boyfriend of only four months and we were not being safe at all. Thankfully, my frontal lobe has developed…so they say.