I’m not good at oral and handjob so I tried learning from watching videos and reading up on it.
I’ve been practicing with my bf a couple of times and today, I decided to challenge myself and see if I can make him finish with only those.
I tried my best until my arms and jaw are tired but he still didn’t finish and in the end, he just did it himself.
He just remarked “Seems like it’s hard for you, huh?” And I just feel really bad about myself. I really tried this time and I still couldn’t do it. I don’t want to make it about my self-worth or anything but my God, I feel so sad and frustrated in myself.
My best is not enough.
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Ive had same problems with my gf. Look up some blowjob/handjob guides on PH, ask your boyfriend how he likes it more, talk to him, ask him NOT TO masturbate on porn for like 1-2 weeks. Your hands will make him beg for more. btw if i was a girl and my bf said to me “seems like its hard for you” i would kick off this guy. It’s embarrassing. I was stressing hard when i couldnt finish so as my gf. But this guy seems not to be stressinf about it.
Ask him to give instructions. Each person likes it differently, so ask him if there’s something in particular that will make it feel good.
It’s just about learning your bfs body! You get it eventually, especially if you continue with the determination, vigor, and enthusiasm you started with!
Honestly throwing this out there, try incorporating dirty talk? Saying some dirty/raunchy things inbetween to give yourself a break + keep tension up