I am in a relationship with a guy who is 31(M) years old, I’m just one year younger than him(30F). We’ve been dating for 7 months, we connected fast, I was we had a long time to know each other. The first 2 month it was a LDR, then he moved to my country, but unfortunately he decided to cheat on me… I don’t want to get into details. But after all the shitty situation, I decided to give him another opportunity. He’s been doing everything to prove me he regret about his actions… I feel he’s sincere about it… After discovering all the drama, I asked him no to hide any details… He has done it … But there’s something is not ok for me… I’m suffering of insomnia and I keep overthinking everything… There was a time he suggested me to cheat on him to make it “fair”, but I’d never do that, it’s not ok for me… do you think it is possible to forget all and rebuild a healthy relationship?
TLDR: My LDR bf came to live with me, cheat on me, I forgave him but I can’t stop overthinking and feeling insecure.
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You won’t ever stop thinking about those feelings even if you are together for years every now and again the fact he cheated will pop into your mind.
It’s really about do you think you can move with those thoughts and in time start to relax more and trust him slowly over time and hopefully that will help with the sleep issues.
But I will say ending the relationship since it’s only really not that long could be for the best