People often confuse being overly nice with kindness, but in reality, it’s a form of manipulation.
When you’re excessively nice to someone, you’re often doing it to gain favor, avoid conflict, or get something in return. True kindness is about being honest, even when it might hurt, not constantly trying to make people like you.
The truth is, people who are overly nice are often the ones who can’t handle discomfort or being disliked, and they use their “niceness” as a way to get what they want without directly asking for it.
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