TIFU by confessing to my crush before our first date

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So there’s this person I been talking to for a month now. And a few days ago, I asked them out on a date.

But several days before our date. I stupidly confess to them that I like them in the morning cause I want to let them know early on that I’m interested in a relationship.

Their response is something like this. (Paraphrase) (Note they respond after an hour later)

“SORRY just read this
Thank you, you’re really sweet and kind person
I like talking to you, I hope we get to talk more”

Now whether or not I got rejected, not sure. This is a very mixed answer and it’s not even a yes or no

TLDR: I asked someone on a date, then a few days before the date, I confess them. And they gave an answer where I can’t tell whether they reject me or not

Comments

  1. Longjumping_Staff_71 Avatar

    well what did exactly did you say to them? i’m sure if they weren’t interested they wouldn’t have said yes to going on a date

  2. nudeauthor Avatar

    Don’t worry. It’s not the end of the world. See how things go.

  3. slaying_mantis Avatar

    Confessing how you feel might not be a mistake. Reading into nothing and then spiralling before the date starts probably is

  4. Wraithei Avatar

    I mean surely she’d know you like her based on the fact that you asked her on a date…

  5. WhirlwindTobias Avatar

    You’re still going on the date, no? If they were rejecting you they’d cancel.

    You must be like 15 years old, and you’re waaay overthinking this.