Mom contacted me after my cancer diagnosis to screech at me about black people

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Times I realized my family are all bad people pt2. The newest example.

I was diagnosed recently with cancer although sadly it is advanced. It’s not hopeless, but it’s also really not good.

I had been no contact with my mom but made sure the news got back to my family because it felt wrong not too.

Radio silence. Then finally after almost two weeks my mom calls me this morning and immediately starts to interrogate me over what I think about a white teenager being viciously murdered by a black teenager at a track meet and how she bets I’m donating money to one of the kids families. She was irate. I told her I had no idea what she’s talking about and she said “bullst you f******* liar”. So I hung up. Still have no idea what she was screeching about

My family are horrible people on their own by the alt right really cooked their brains.

Comments

  1. ReliefEmotional2639 Avatar

    Ooof. Sending hugs and I hope you can recover from your cancer.

  2. EnthusiasticFailing Avatar

    That’s rough, I hope you have a quick recovery. At least you know you made the right decision to go NC.

  3. Xiazei Avatar

    Wishing you peace and fast recovery

  4. Alarmed_Implement909 Avatar

    Hoping that everything turns alright for you.

  5. Christian_teen12 Avatar

    Good luck; you don’t deserve this.

    they should be there for you, not using it to preach hate.

    please cut them off.

  6. Nick_Nekro Avatar

    It’s okay. We’re your family now and we hope you recover

  7. PieceFit Avatar

    Why are white people so goddamn hateful? Even when we were off doing our own thing in our own neighborhood because they didn’t want us around. They’d make it a point to come on through to tear shit up? Just why? And what’s occurring today I think is a panicked reaction by white bigots to regain what power they believe should belong to only straight white men.

    Race is a social construct anyway. This black vs white is all dumb shit anyway? Keep your mom outta your life sweetie until she does better. Because you don’t need this shit during your recovery. Sending you tons of hugs and positive thoughts. 🤗There is hope.

  8. Agrarian-girl Avatar

    Wow. I’m so sorry you have a mother like this.
    Please resume your NC status with her, she’s an awful human being.
    I pray for your full recovery.

  9. Ginger630 Avatar

    Block her number so she can’t call you again.

  10. LostInHTML Avatar

    Oh man, I’ve had cancer twice now. My parents ignored me. Sounds like I got the better end of the deal.

  11. myboogerstastespicy Avatar

    Block her. What a horrible human. I am sending you hugs.

    Wishing you peace and strength. Much love.

  12. 7thpostman Avatar

    I’m so sorry. Nobody should be in that position.

    I’m praying for you, wishing you all the strength and resilience in the world.

  13. freshub393 Avatar

    dang i’m so sorry OP, wishing you a speedy recovery