Honestly, sometimes you just gotta lean into the ick and think, “Does this actually matter?” People obsess over little things like someone chewing funny or using too many emojis. Seriously, who cares? If everything else is cool and you still want to hang out with them, maybe the ick is just a you problem.
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I normally have a 3 strike system with people when it comes to icks, be it friends, boyfriends, random people I meet
1st ick is whatever
2nd ick is annoying and they’re on thin ice
3rd ick I drop all contact
Between the icks I’ll normally say something about it so they KNOW they’re being icky.
Honestly, sometimes you just gotta lean into the ick and think, “Does this actually matter?” People obsess over little things like someone chewing funny or using too many emojis. Seriously, who cares? If everything else is cool and you still want to hang out with them, maybe the ick is just a you problem.