So I recently matched with this girl on hinge. For some reason she literally love bombed me and I was happy to fall for it. So even I love bombed her and within 2 weeks of chatting, sharing snaps and a couple of long hours of calls, we decided to go for a first-ever date and she said she will stay the night. So she drove 1 hour to my place because she didn’t want me to come to her place to pick her up.
We then went to a nice restaurant had some nice chats and dinner. We finally got home and after talking for a little bit we decided we would not do the deed but just get a little touchy. So we started getting a bit physical. However she then insisted that she wants to go down on me and eventually I asked her that you explicitly said you won’t do the deed but now you are almost there. So she agreed to do the deed took off her clothes and lied on the bed with her legs open expecting me to eat her out. However as soon as I went a little close to her coochie, I got a really bad smell of shit. Like literal shit. So I got nervous for a second and asked can I wipe it with a tissue before I go down because it kind of smells like shit. She touched her coochie and smelled her finger and said it’s because both holes are so close so this would smell like that… But within seconds she literally stood up, dressed up and said I need to get home and I can’t do it with you.
I do agree asking to wipe off with the tissue was a stupid question but how the hell am I supposed to go down on her when her coochie is literally and extremely smelly like shit….
How could I have dealt with this situation without creating awkwardness? She was so pissed that she said she will never do it with me, got dressed up and walked off.
Deep down I felt thank God I didn’t have to do it with her because the smell was so extremely bad but I just want to know how was I the wrong person here?
Usually whenever I have been with other girls they do keep it quiet clean and not smelly at all unless you literally sneak into the butthole but I could literally smell shit from one feet away.
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LMFAOOO ššššš sorry mate is this a troll
NTA – this is gonna trigger loads of women probably
But you shouldnt be forced to do a sex act with someone with poor physical hygiene. This applied to all genders.
This is why I have a hot tub. Impress them, arouse them, get them naked, and bathe them simultaneously.
A shower together because “you feel like sweat stank and stuff from the nerves of finally meeting her” would also work. (Be sure to wash her romantically but thoroughly though, because it seems she doesn’t wash right).
A tissue ain’t going to do shit but spread the crotch shit-funk around.
If it was as bad as you say, fuck it I’ll shoot straight and say that’s not for me and explain why, in hopes they’ll improve it for their future benefit.
Personal hygiene really isn’t negotiable to me. And guess what all pussies have? An asshole next door. But they certainly don’t all smell like it. I’d just be glad I dodged that shit bullet, and She would have been blocked long before she got home.
This post took me clean out! šššš NTA
you weren’t wrong for not going through with it, but yeah, there was probably a smoother way to handle it.. awkward situation all around
Hahahaha you asked her to wipe
Thatās great
Saved you from a shitty situation
She did NOT stink because “both holes are close” — she stuck because she had literal shit on her ass, and that’s because she didn’t properly clean herself. That’s just nasty. There was no good way to deal with this nor should you have tried to “power through”. She’s a filthy person and you dodged a bullet.
To think that you are going to remove a shit smell with a simple tissue leaves me perplexed.
NTA. Female here. And to me you weren’t in the wrong. She may have been embarrassed but honestly. It was just the truth. Her saying “because they’re so close together so of course it’ll smell like that” is straight up bullshit lmao. Because how does your cooch smell like straight up š© unless you’re like wiping back to front or something??. If you had wiped it. I doubt it would have done much good anyway. She would have still needed a shower it’s sounds like. Atleast your hygenic. Hopefully she will be more often as well.
She sounds nasty. Why would she stink cause both holes are close together? She drank because she didnāt wipe properly and is dirty!
Good hygiene is really important, especially in intimate situations. Not to judge but it sounds like she may have been aware of the issue, which could explain her hesitation at first. You werenāt in the wrong OP for prioritizing your own comfort and health.
nah, coochie isnāt supposed to smell like shit.
NTA
NTA it do be smelling like fish.
Hereās a test I like to use. Always finger her firstā¦and then put the finger in her mouth. If she wonāt do it, then you donāt go down there. However, if she does, then you canāt bitch out.
If she knew she was going to stay before getting there she could had shower before hand.than to have the nerve to get piss is.you netter wash yoir sheets.they might have streaks.its always the nasty ones who get offended.nta
>She touched her coochie and smelled her finger and said it’s because both holes are so close so this would smell like that…
Absofreakinglutely not!
Her personal hygiene is severely lacking if her genitals smell like literal shit.
NTA. Female here, you definitely did the right thing. She should not smell like that if sheās keeping herself clean. Fine, shit happens, weāre all humans but itās not on you to power through and carry on. Honestly, if it were me, Iād rather the person Iām with be honest. Simple as, āgive me a sec, could I use your shower?ā Wash myself and maybe turn it into a āromanticā shower togetheršcertainly wouldnāt let the person near the area but thatās because Iād be embarrassed personallyš
SHE GOT THE ICK CAUSE YOU GOT THE ICK .
For context young girls arenāt really told how to stay clean in the bits. I will tell you from experience that hygiene isnāt something discussed, but we know when things arenāt smelling like roses. There are a select few that make sure odors and secretions are addressed timely and we are ready for GO at all times.
Sorry you had to smell the shit from her vageeeen and taint. Better she bolted than you getting some ecoli to floss out later.
I am so lucky I married wellā¦
Omg i couldn’t help but laugh out loud when i heard you describe how bad it smelt LOL i’m just imagning you making gross and confused facial expressions hahahahhahahaha
I know that beloved region of my gf very well, and it NEVER stinks of poop unless there’s poop somewhere.
I’m sorry, but if you are 25, why does this read like a 14 year old boy wrote it? I mean, c’mon sport, put some effort into your bullshit pubescent fiction writing.
NTA but maybe you could have suggested a fun shower together.
I agree that you dodged a bullet.
That said, showering together can be a nice way to start intimacy.
On arrival at your home with a visitor you can offer them a towel and soap for their comfort and if you want to model the behaviour have a shower yourself.
Further, she did say she only wanted touching. Maybe her lack of cleanliness was due to the hour drive and rushing from work, self consciousnesses might have inspired her reluctance, then you pressured her to go further. That pressure may have driven her disregard for your concerns.
The lessons you can take away are:
Be a better host, encourage guests to freshen up, don’t be in such a hurry.
Don’t pressure anyone to stretch their boundaries. The more enthusiastic a partner, the better the sex. You are often much better off waiting for the second date. Don’t just seek her consent, try and have her asking for yours.
NTA – now you know why she was so eager to get with you. Willing to bet this is a reoccurring problem on her end.
And thatās why I use wet wipes after every time I go to the bathroom, my man says my coochie always smells fresh and clean.
Yea even if she had an infection like BV it would smell fishy not like š©. There would be no gots to see it through my boy for me either šš¤£
You got lucky. Dodged a bullet before contracting something!! Now watch them sheets bud. šš
As a female you need to always keep your ass & vagene clean because the risk of UTIās and thrush is too high.
You could have gotten very sick if you had continued.
Sheās nasty. Ā
Letās take a shower togetherā¦.
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