I for example, get very emotional when listening to beautiful music and sometimes tears fall. I am generally quite a sensitive person.
How about you?
Gentlemen, what is the most ladylike trait you possess?
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I for example, get very emotional when listening to beautiful music and sometimes tears fall. I am generally quite a sensitive person.
How about you?
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I can’t stand watching football
I love colours and flowers
I secretly want women to take the lead in most/all areas of life.
For selfish reasons; I’m afraid of having immense decisions weigh on my conscience
Videos of wee baby animals, in particular otters, turn me into a big soft cooing marshmallow.
I like purple, have long hair and hate soccer.
I have a skin care routine that my girlfriend taught me. Not crazy, but more than the average guy.
Although I do watch sports occasionally, I am nowhere near as crazy as an average dude could be.
I can rock a stripper pole, enough to make a bit of money in a contest.
Some important context: lots of male strippers don’t work the poles.
I am also very sensitive and learned the hard way to hide it from the external world.
I am blessed to have a wife that understand that and accept me for who I am, at least to certain extent (eg it’s ok to have feelings, but we also need to act when situation requires).
My favorite color is purple.
My nails should always be neat and clean
I have a plump.. cake, and have been told I have a bbw booty 🥴
I like saying words like “yass,girl,slay” whenever I see something I like online. I’m straight
There are certain songs I simply cannot listen to because I will absolutely cry.
I’ve literally told friends to change the song before.
Definitely music, Chopin and sometimes “Jesse’s Girl” I get weepy eyed. I mean.. must be allergies.
I have a skincare routine.
I only do it because I sweat a lot during kickboxing sparring.
I’m gonna give the same answer you did, OP. Even if I don’t cry, I will often literally get chills running down my spine.
Also, once a piece makes me feel a certain way (angry, sad, happy, amused, etc.) that emotion is baked in for good. Every time I listen to it, all the feelings come rushing back.
I’ve since come to understand that, not only do these pieces speak to me on a deeply spiritual level, they also help me to understand the feelings better.
It is no understatement for me to say that music is one of the best forms of therapy I know. After all, there are people who do it for a living, so there is no denying its power.
I like to wear pink hoochie daddy shorts at the gym
Love me a nice floral or fruit-scented body wash.
In the last year I started buying an expensive face wash and washing my face and moisturising everyday. And just recently, I started buying expensive shampoo and argan oil for my hair. Fair play if you genuinely dont need them, but these things make me look and feel better and i wish i got onto it earlier!
I sit down when I pee; to text, or on case I have to poop.
I take care of my skin hair lips and especially my eyelashes lol i was raised by a tribe of women after all have a lot of aunts and a sister who buy my clothes
It was inevitable
I am an extremely attentive host at dinner parties.
Even tho I’m 20, I’m very good with kids and like being around them. I’ve volunteer with kids of all ages for several years now and generally speaking I’m pretty good at holding a kids’ attention and nurturing them without being a pushover. I know this shouldn’t really be viewed as a feminine trait but I feel like in our culture it is.
I have tits
I not only enjoy cooking, I can nerd out about midcentury modern kitchen design, or straight up retro future stuff like the Fallout style kitchen decor from the series.
I think most ladylike traits we are generally negative of with men are really just sexism rearing its head. I love planta and nature and can appreciate the beauty of flowers. I love purple and pink. I wear lotion every day. I like to use nice soaps. I make my bed in the morning. I like fashion and dressing nicely (although I don’t want to overdo it). I enjoy cute things. I’ll cry at something beautiful. I like to think I’m pretty in tune with my emotions. I love cooking. I like a good pointed toe boot. I can sew a little and will touch up my clothes if they have issues… or I’ll even modify things (I’ve added pockets to bags and stuff). Uhhhhh idk… probably more. I think “feminine” and “masculine” do not apply to women and men like we say they do, and are really just organizational tools for our minds… which might have you thinking I’m non-binary or something… but I am very much a man with a penis that likes vaginas.
I do mainly if not all the house chore routines of a “traditional wife”. The meal plans, the grocery shopping, being home less money. Shit even my illness predominantly affects women where only 1 in 10 patients are male(Systemic Lupus erythematosus). I’m 6’4″ 275lbs work as a finish carpenter, where I only work 45hrs a week. My wife works 45 hours a week, then another 40 hrs a week she’s working on getting her MBA during the nights and weekends. She’s already the bread winner, but she wants me to work less due to my illness and eventually take on the role as being my sugar mama.
I epilate my body hair
I’m very sensitive and I tear up often
Music, movies, and music are the biggest culprits
Love fruity smells, baby animals, & my favorite color is a toss up between forest green and royal purple.
Oh and I like being the little spoon when we cuddle sometimes.
I’m detail oriented. I keep track of stuff around the house much better than the old lady. I manage all the bills and taxes too.
I got small fuckin hands
I like cooking, I care about nutrients balance and diet, I dislike corn videos and prefer literature smut, even writing it. And if I do, I care more about characters, romance while limiting explicit scenes.