Recently I (22F) slept with my ex. I definitely shouldn’t have but on the bright side it helped me get over him. We had sex and he finished. He then layed on his bed. I grabbed my toy and started trying to get myself off. I tell him to help me and he does for two minutes and he gets up to get water.
I ended up getting myself off and I started getting dressed to leave. He asked me why I’m leaving and I call him selfish. He then says that he’s been working everyday and that he’s tired so he couldn’t get me off. But you made sure you did. I leave and he messages me today but I decided to just block him.
Why would I waste the years that I have the most energy on bad sex with selfish men. If he doesn’t try to get you off end the FWB or reevaluate the relationship. My girlfriends have had boyfriends or hookups who didn’t try to get them off and I’m like why are you sleeping with someone who doesn’t care about your pleasure !!
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Edit: This post was a single-line scrollable text box when I first saw it… wasn’t trying to correct anything, just make it readable. I fully agree with the post!
You mean there are men who try to help you get off? 🤪