Last night i felt the urge to scroll through my bfs phone while he was asleep.He’s been acting a-bit strange so i just needed to know what’s going on.
I notice locked chats so now i use his thumb to unlock and damn i wish i never did that….long story short he’s been seeing a 47yr old lady he’s 27 we’re basically age mates.
I don’t ask him for anything not salon money,nails,house rent or anything just his time I don’t understand the pressure young men have to make it in life through shortcuts.He literally has no bills.Stays with his parents no job yet.I mean do guys do this just to afford flashy watches,good shoes and expensive drinks ??
I’m at work just struggling to focus and push through the day coz WTH is that?How do i compete with a 47yr old driving a red Mercedes C200??Chose to rant here coz how do i tell my friends a 47yrs old mamaa took my man??
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If she’s a sponsor, it sounds like your bf has addiction issues.
Also, it’s gross going through a partners phone.
I mean, if your first port of call isn’t ‘fuck this guy’, I guess you’ve gotta go find your own!
Umm is she a sponsor, as help for an addiction, or a sugar mamma? I’m confused?
Why not find a man with a job?
If he’s that old without working (unless it’s full time school or volunteering), he has too much time on his and will get into trouble.
But if it’s a sponsor and he has addiction issues that he might not trust you with. He’s acting weird might be him fearing a lapse if he hasnt already.
Sounds like you both need to sort out priorities.