It’s pretty much in the title, my husband wants to eat me for more than 1 hour. After an hour (and more than 1 orgasm) I’m kinda done. He wants to keep going and going.
Am I the asshole for asking him to stop?
AITAH my husband wants to eat me for more than 1 hour
r/AITAH
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No…
Damn girl you got it bad
Nope… get yours and go to sleep 😴 🤣lol
As with all things, it’s about communication and being reciprocal.
NTA for asking him to stop, but you probably both need to chat about what you want to get out of getting each other off. He might be thinking you want this and he’s doing you a favour – a chat always helps.
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NTA, but possibly the object of severe envy for many women reading this 😅
Not at all, it’s too much for going on and on.
Max like 30 minutes. With small breaks of maybe kissing or fingers.
Is he really small in the pants? Suffers from ED?
I just got shut down on this exact thing tonight but only after 6 orgasms and 20 minutes
No once I have the big o, I’m done.
One hour is too long 😭
Just be grateful you don’t taste nasty
girl, protect your peace. after an hour, you’d wanna tap out for sure. nta
Are you a large lady? I’m wondering how he gets so much meat off of you and how long he’s been doing this for!!!!
👀 Umm…ok?
I mean no, but damn I wish I had this problem 😂
Does he care if you sleep, snack or scroll on your phone? Stop for bathroom and fresh up break?
If ambivalent, YTA
NTA, you’re allowed to be done. I always want to go longer to just give med oooonnneeee more orgasm. But when she’s done, she’s done. Those of us guys who really enjoy it, it’s the fact that you’re enjoying that makes it so awesome to us
NTA. As a man who loves eating his wife out, I know that as much as I enjoy it, it’s for her pleasure first and foremost. It’s just great it’s something I enjoy too. But you’re the one who gets to decide how long and how often, not him
Just smoke some weed……..? I always found it beneficial to tie my partners up, for this very reason, so I could leave….
NTA (I am a lesbian for context) I LOOOVE giving my gf oral, and I do enjoy receiving it but after a certain point I personally start to lose sensation if it’s just one thing repeated for hours, gf loves head but after a certain point, your coochie can only take so much and you can get over stimulated or rubbed raw, we always take breaks when needed, breaks are important!
Better to have this problem than to have the opposite problem, but still! Remember to always prioritize your comfort over someone’s sexual pleasure!
Divorce him and set him free! Some of us out here are ready for this treatment!
Can you watch do other things while he is doing this? Perhaps stream Netflix?
Otherwise, I’m torn.
NTAH
Nta. After a while things need to change up.
nope.. After a certain point it just becomes oversensitive and unpleasant
My gf is the same, she always tells me to stop when I wanna keep going. Not an AH move though. But you kinda would be an AH if you told him to stop then didn’t go down on him
NTA. But just talk it out, sex needs to be fun for all involved parties.
Problems I wish I had lol
But no, you’re NTA
For some guys it’s a huge turn on when they can make a woman orgasm like that. Myself I love to hear the loud explosion of pleasure that comes from a woman’s orgasm, and it gets me going. I tend to want my wife to get at least 2 O to my 1.
Your NTA, but probably should just communicate with him to see if it’s a massive turn on for him.
Oh no! Two women love me! They’re both gorgeous and sexy! My wallet’s too small for my fifties, and my diamond shoes are too tight!”
I go until my tongue is locked and I can’t move my jaw…
He must have a very strong jaw.
NTA:Dang an hour. I feel like I would get lock jaw, lol 😆 I would definitely tell him once I do the Big O I want to be done
GUYS MY WIFE WANTS TO SUCK MY DICK ALL DAY AND IM SO SICK OF IT!!!
Nta
I’d hate that.
NTA. I really enjoy eating out my gf and we did stuff like that too, but damn! It’s about you enjoying it (as much as it pleasures us too) but he needs to respect your boundaries. Clear communication is key here
Not the asshole but maybe next time guide him towards your asshole. Could be different or he could stop. Enjoy 😉
Lucky guy. I haven’t eaten my wife out in years and I miss it. My wife doesn’t let me give her oral. She gets grossed out by her own scent on my face so it ends the whole encounter and there aren’t many of those at all. iliasm.org
Goodbye to every woman’s dm’s that’s replying they wish they had that problem here lol
NTA. It’s about two of you, and if either of you don’t wanna do something, it isn’t done.
Nope. It would be too irritating after a few minutes
NTA. But rather than shutting him down, it might be helpful to switch position with you on top that way you have more control over where he’s working it and with what intensity. Or 69 him so that when he finishes he might want a break too.
I actually have this problem myself with my wife. Once I start I get so into it and everytime she cums it just turns me on more and makes me want to just eat here even more. You aren’t an asshole. You need to explain to him how sensitive that area is after and that if he keeps going it won’t be any fun for you and then will make you want to stop all the fun in its tracks
Nta
In my opinion: NTA
Talk with your husband about how it feels. If you go down on him, explain to him how it feels when you keep going after he’s orgasmed.
1 hour?? Does this guy have a job? A life? How do you guys have so much spare time 🤣🤣
Dude is living in paradise….NTA though.
You’re a all-you-can-eat buffet
nta – return the favor and he will know ✌️
If you don’t like something happening to your body, you always have the right to let him stop. No exceptions!
Try a 1 hour BJ, I bet he can’t handle that either 🙂
Not an asshole, everyone has their limits but the fsct he wants to eat you out for over an hour means he loves teasing you and apparently your juices and doesnt get tired of you. I live eating out, but I can understand if you have a limit.
No…after awhile, it kinda hurts! 🤷♀️
I’m sorry is this a porn movie? No one needs to be eaten or pleasured for more than an hour. Has he no job to go to or hobbies 😂
It’s a fantasy, but of course, to a certain extent!
I Feel just like your Husband
Nta. I’m glad to see that someone else has this problem though
NTA, but i’d rather have that than the opposite problem 😭😭😭
NTA. I wish my husband would do it even if it’s just a few minutes.
Would he like multiple blowjobs orgasm after
Orgasm? Till is cock is over sensitive?
Contemplating a career change? Wants to get into gynecology. Tells buddies he’s studying to go back to school to be a gyno….🤣
NTA but I can’t say I don’t envy you
NTA. I’m like ypur husband, but when she says she’s had enough I’m happy to move on to something else. If he prioritizes your pleasure he shouldn’t be bothered by you telling him when to do the same.
That’s incredible
At this point he’s draining your life source.
NTA
No you should cum in under ten minutes
Tell him to stop watching so much porn
NTA. I have made a similar mistake with my wife. I like to chase her big orgasms. Sometimes I don’t recognize when her body is fighting that big O and she can’t get over the edge. when that happens, she still finds satisfaction in the little orgasmic flutters I get her to, and after about 20 minutes of chasing the big one, we have to give up and try again later. As we have gotten older, our bodies are far more temperamental than they were in our 20s. we take more breaks and have less marathons these days.
NTA, when you’re done, you’re done. It gets over sensitive for guys too, ask him if he could stand a 1 hour BJ. If he says he can, give it a try, I guarantee he will ask you to stop.
Sounds like a technique problem. Edging can be entertaining for a while until frustration really sets in, then it becomes much the same.
Porn has destroyed peoples minds. Tell him to rejoin reality where pleasures and pressures have limits.
That kitty must be delicious to want to spend an hour on! 😮
No.
NTA. It’s your body and he should respect that you’re done!
He’s allowed? I thought that was a pre marriage thing. Lucky guy, I miss the taste
NTA. Once I’ve hit three or four orgasms I give my signal that it’s time to wrap it up.
wrap it up box