I (M18) started college in January. I just finished one of my classes because it was only once every other week. In that class, there was a girl (F18) that I thought was pretty attractive, and she seemed pretty nice. I only talked to her a few times, so I don’t even know her name, but I was thinking about asking her out. I’m not sure if I should because I don’t even know if she’s single.
Tl;dr: I (M18) think this girl is attractive, and she seems pretty nice, but I don’t know if she’s single and I’m not sure if I should try to make any kind of move.
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Why would a woman date someone she barely knows who doesn’t even know her name? Make an effort to get to know her first.
Why don’t you ask her for a coffee before next class? And once you get to talk and know her more you will find out.
You should write your phone number on a piece of paper and give it to her, saying something like, “Hey, I don’t know if you remember me, but I was in ___ class that you were in. Wondering if you’d be interested in getting coffee sometime, here’s my number.”
Give it to her, and then walk away. If she’s interested and available, she’ll text you. If not, you’ll have gotten up the confidence to ask someone (which is more than a lot of people!) and you’ll have your answer.