Someone you love saying they love you back and acting like it for a while. Then one day, out of nowhere, they do an 180°, act like you two had nothing going on, say you’re delusional and crazy, and end the relationship they say you two never had.
As an autistic person, overstimulation can be one of the most uncomfortable sensations that borders on physically painful. Similar feeling to nerve pain.
Someone you love losing someone. My mom lost my aunt and it hurt so badly, I couldn’t get myself together because all I could think about was that my mom’s heart was broken and there was nothing I could do to fix it. Then the guilt of not being able to compose myself to be strong for her, just a horrible cycle of pain and guilt.
Rejection when you do something bravely. I’m sure getting hit by a car sucks way more physically, but the inner gut punch when you’re shot down makes my heart hurt!
Honorable mention to betrayal. Friend, lover, stranger, dog. Sucks sucks sucks
I’ve never lost anyone that I loved but the pain I get from just thinking about it… I literally cannot imagine the real and raw pain I’ll feel when it eventually happens
I had a rotator cuff repair surgery a few weeks ago, and when that nerve block wore off, it was excruciating. I was forewarned, but I never imagined the amount of pure hell pain.
Running out of drugs or your lighter going out or breaking your pookie and you’re too broke to get another or someone dying you like I’d assume or losing friends. Or the ugly bitch at northwestern hospital in Huntley putting a catheter in me because they couldn’t wait 2 seconds. I fucking gave them ugly fucks a gallon of my pee and they fucking came back like nope WE NEED MORE NOWWWWW!!!! Catheter
Waking up in the morning to go work. Do that all day until you’re sore tired and hungry. Just to have a lady who’s wearing clothes and jewellery that’s worth more than a years worth of your salary. Someone who’s probably never worked a day in her life walk up to you and start screaming at you. Calling you worthless and so many more derogatory things. Then tries to tell you how to do a job you’ve been working at for 10+ years. Just yelling and screaming, berating you on things you have no control over. All because she had to wait in line for more than a few minutes to find out the drink she wanted couldn’t be made because we were out of one of the ingredients. You stand there while you’re getting screamed at wondering why you’re even there. Is having a roof over your head and food in your stomach worth any of it?
Iv had a shit tonne of injuries in life and none of them even come close to gout, breaking bones is fuck all compared to the mildest gout attack…. a bad gout attack has made me seriously consider cutting my foot off a few times and also take 56 cocodamol in 24 hours(want aware paracetamol was in them at this point, just got told they were painkillers) ended up in hospital with pancreatitis… gout pain is really pretty crazy
Everything you have in life to be ripped from under the rug of you in a matter of a month. All of that is grief, and not something I’d wish on (most) people.
Besides losing someone you love, id say feeling lonely when your partner is right there still with you. Whether it’s withholding affection, them being emotionally unavailable, choosing addictions over you… over quality time with you. You sit there watching them drift further away. You sometimes watch your life pass by you and realize your marriage was spent feeling completely alone. You realize this is your life, and that’s it. You can’t change someone… you were never meant to change them. Only you yourself can change… but then you realize you’re scared, so you stay. That’s a horrible feeling.
The most severe pain? I don’t know, but I had surgery on my entire spine and when the painkiller wore off, I couldn’t even breathe from the pain. This pain was worse than all the wounds I’ve received in my life combined.
Honestly it’s having absolutely no hope in anything at all. It’s truly a dark feeling when your mind convinces you that there is no way out of suffering, that you’ll never move on and be in pain forever. I struggle with mental illnesses and when I’m low, it’s super low. I genuinely feel convinced there is no way out. It’s truly suffocating.
Physically, for me it was gallbladder attacks. Had them for 6 years until it almost killed me. One of the last ones I had lasted for 25 hours. Feels like a ratchet strap is wrapped around your upper abdomen, right at the base of the rib cage, and tightened until it feels like there’s internal injury. My wife also had a gallbladder attack, she said childbirth was less painful.
Had the surgery without insurance (before Idaho expanded Medicaid) and had to pay half down in cash or else wait until I was more jaundice and have an ER rip it out. I still have wage garnishments against me for that. In Idaho your wages can be garnished at 25% after taxes for medical debt. Pretty sweet.
Emotionally, my Dad’s suicide 13 years ago. I still haven’t recovered. 2 weeks after he did it, my wife and I find out we are having our first baby. The emotional whiplash was intense. It’s hard to grieve when you’re trying to celebrate.
What I’m feeling now I guess, failure. Partner and I are in the process of splitting up and have to sell the house. I wanted to buy her out but don’t make enough off current market value. So she gets her way, ex partner also wants to have our daughter majority of the time, no week on week off what I want. Feel like I’ve failed my daughter
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Stubbing ur toe
Losing someone you love
Love.
Giving birth to your father
Feeling like you’re not enough for the people you love and it’s not even close…
The feeling you get from a lingering memory that just won’t go away
when you know you have to let go.
I lost my cousin to domestic violence. That was the a hard feeling to experience.
She had an open casket and you can still see the shock look on her face.
Giving birth without an epidural
Someone you love saying they love you back and acting like it for a while. Then one day, out of nowhere, they do an 180°, act like you two had nothing going on, say you’re delusional and crazy, and end the relationship they say you two never had.
Never knowing my biological mother. She left before I was born.
regret/grief
Losing someone you love who is still alive.
Being lonely with people around
Knowing I fucked up our lives and there’s no going back.
Being a virgin
When you loose a friendship that you know will never recover
When it feels like you’re gonna sneeze but then you don’t.
when you smudge your eyeliner when you’re in a rush and don’t have time to fix it so you have to remove it from both of your eyes
Seeing how happy your pet is to spend time with you, knowing tomorrow that pet will be gone.
Bone marrow biopsy…I have had 5
As an autistic person, overstimulation can be one of the most uncomfortable sensations that borders on physically painful. Similar feeling to nerve pain.
That, or cervical dystonia. Fuck that shit.
Someone you love losing someone. My mom lost my aunt and it hurt so badly, I couldn’t get myself together because all I could think about was that my mom’s heart was broken and there was nothing I could do to fix it. Then the guilt of not being able to compose myself to be strong for her, just a horrible cycle of pain and guilt.
The pain of life lasting mistakes you can never change.
dying
Rejection when you do something bravely. I’m sure getting hit by a car sucks way more physically, but the inner gut punch when you’re shot down makes my heart hurt!
Honorable mention to betrayal. Friend, lover, stranger, dog. Sucks sucks sucks
Losing a long term friend 😪
Splinter underneath your finger/toe nail
Realizing the person you vent to about everyone… is the one you can’t vent to about them.
Mental and emotional anguish.
I’ve never lost anyone that I loved but the pain I get from just thinking about it… I literally cannot imagine the real and raw pain I’ll feel when it eventually happens
A 10” black Mandingo dick in your ass with no lube
I had a rotator cuff repair surgery a few weeks ago, and when that nerve block wore off, it was excruciating. I was forewarned, but I never imagined the amount of pure hell pain.
Loving someone who doesn’t love you back
dying and knowing that i haven’t accomplished anything
Running out of drugs or your lighter going out or breaking your pookie and you’re too broke to get another or someone dying you like I’d assume or losing friends. Or the ugly bitch at northwestern hospital in Huntley putting a catheter in me because they couldn’t wait 2 seconds. I fucking gave them ugly fucks a gallon of my pee and they fucking came back like nope WE NEED MORE NOWWWWW!!!! Catheter
Stubbing your toe
It burns really bad when I pee.
Betrayal
Waking up in the morning to go work. Do that all day until you’re sore tired and hungry. Just to have a lady who’s wearing clothes and jewellery that’s worth more than a years worth of your salary. Someone who’s probably never worked a day in her life walk up to you and start screaming at you. Calling you worthless and so many more derogatory things. Then tries to tell you how to do a job you’ve been working at for 10+ years. Just yelling and screaming, berating you on things you have no control over. All because she had to wait in line for more than a few minutes to find out the drink she wanted couldn’t be made because we were out of one of the ingredients. You stand there while you’re getting screamed at wondering why you’re even there. Is having a roof over your head and food in your stomach worth any of it?
Iv had a shit tonne of injuries in life and none of them even come close to gout, breaking bones is fuck all compared to the mildest gout attack…. a bad gout attack has made me seriously consider cutting my foot off a few times and also take 56 cocodamol in 24 hours(want aware paracetamol was in them at this point, just got told they were painkillers) ended up in hospital with pancreatitis… gout pain is really pretty crazy
Needing real sleep/rest when burnt out but you can’t because your job is all consuming.
Burying your child. Nothing compares
Never getting closure from a situation that truly messed you up while you were already down.
Someone you thought you knew & love with all your heart changing in the blink of an eye
Some of you have never had a kidney stone the size of a Micro Machine pass through your urethra and it shows
Betrayal
the realization that your current self is one you never wanted to grow up to be
The times that I relive the morning my husband passed away💔my heart hurts still to this day
A thin splinter under the nail.
Leg cramp when you get up
Trying to explain to someone who doesn’t believe u
Dry sockets from wisdom teeth removal
Ischemic colitis is pretty fugging painful.
GETTING CHEATED ON.
A broken heart
Losing my parents was the worst pain I’ve ever felt.
Asthmatic here. Not being able to breathe.
Watching someone have what you want
Testicular Torsion
Kidney stones? Having your knees drilled out? Peripheral Neuropathy? The list goes on.
Not feeling loved
For me so far in my 32 years, gallbladder stones/attacks. Thankful for that surgery once they discovered it.
Mouth pain.
Having to grieve someone who is still alive. Especially if it’s not your faults at all.
Shingles. Dealing with it now
Physically speaking, getting bit by a copperhead. I wouldn’t even wish that on an enemy.
Everything you have in life to be ripped from under the rug of you in a matter of a month. All of that is grief, and not something I’d wish on (most) people.
Besides losing someone you love, id say feeling lonely when your partner is right there still with you. Whether it’s withholding affection, them being emotionally unavailable, choosing addictions over you… over quality time with you. You sit there watching them drift further away. You sometimes watch your life pass by you and realize your marriage was spent feeling completely alone. You realize this is your life, and that’s it. You can’t change someone… you were never meant to change them. Only you yourself can change… but then you realize you’re scared, so you stay. That’s a horrible feeling.
Burying a child
Mustache hair caught in the beer can tab
The most severe pain? I don’t know, but I had surgery on my entire spine and when the painkiller wore off, I couldn’t even breathe from the pain. This pain was worse than all the wounds I’ve received in my life combined.
Honestly it’s having absolutely no hope in anything at all. It’s truly a dark feeling when your mind convinces you that there is no way out of suffering, that you’ll never move on and be in pain forever. I struggle with mental illnesses and when I’m low, it’s super low. I genuinely feel convinced there is no way out. It’s truly suffocating.
Having to go to sleep on a bender
Giving birth
Physically, for me it was gallbladder attacks. Had them for 6 years until it almost killed me. One of the last ones I had lasted for 25 hours. Feels like a ratchet strap is wrapped around your upper abdomen, right at the base of the rib cage, and tightened until it feels like there’s internal injury. My wife also had a gallbladder attack, she said childbirth was less painful.
Had the surgery without insurance (before Idaho expanded Medicaid) and had to pay half down in cash or else wait until I was more jaundice and have an ER rip it out. I still have wage garnishments against me for that. In Idaho your wages can be garnished at 25% after taxes for medical debt. Pretty sweet.
Emotionally, my Dad’s suicide 13 years ago. I still haven’t recovered. 2 weeks after he did it, my wife and I find out we are having our first baby. The emotional whiplash was intense. It’s hard to grieve when you’re trying to celebrate.
im not sure yet,
Getting punched in the testicles
Losing my dogs
knowing your learning disability prevents you from being the person you want to be.
What I’m feeling now I guess, failure. Partner and I are in the process of splitting up and have to sell the house. I wanted to buy her out but don’t make enough off current market value. So she gets her way, ex partner also wants to have our daughter majority of the time, no week on week off what I want. Feel like I’ve failed my daughter
Taking your elderly parent to a doctor because they can’t take themselves anymore.
Syntocin contractions were the most pain I’ve ever felt.
Constantly ruining your own life
Getting a leather cricket ball crashing with balls.
Everyone is saying emotional pain and I think that speaks volumes.
Seeing a kid you loved die
Something bad happening to your child
Child’s death has to be the absolute worst
I don’t want to lose my dad, I’m not ready to lose him.
Getting kicked in the balls