I 30f dealt with this man 36m for years and to me he’s a narcissist. All the love bombing and then I started to notice he would just lie unprovoked about little things. We don’t live in the same place so when I would come see him it wouldn’t be as much as I liked. The first time I came he told me without me prompting that next time I came he’d be with me all weekend. I come the next time he didn’t do that so I brought it up and that’s when he’d flip it “oh I have a busy life. I have to go drop my daughter off at school and pick her up.” Also he’d always ask me for something 25/8 like pictures, coffee cups (I couldn’t tell you why he’d asked me for that). But when I’d asked for something more than food it was a problem. I’d bring up how much he asked me for things and that I should be able to do the same with no problem and he said “you just don’t have to get anything for me them”. So I started trying to talk to men in my city. He found out online because we were Twitter friends and that made him go insane. He said because we were intimate me trying to talk to other people was crazy. Please note that he dealt with other people because we were never officially in a relationship but he liked to carry it like one because of the benefits. After that I noticed he started talking to me less on purpose. Even later on he admitted he was talking to me less because of that incident. I found a woman that has know him since she was 14 and he was 17. she told me how he’s an overall liar. So much so that I found out his real name. He was going by a different name that he claimed was his middle name but if that’s the case I don’t why you couldn’t just say that. After this situation he started to treat me worse and acted as if I violated him and should be begging for his attention. So I blocked him. He spent the next month on social media trying to get my attention. He sent a farewell message at first I ignored that then he started to tell me how evil I am. Then I blocked him on social media. That was a month ago. I stumbled upon his page because we have mutuals. Triggering myself as always 🫠. He’s essentially been subbing me the whole month and I’m just now seeing that. I guess hoping it will trigger me to reach out. But I also noticed that he’s acting like he never did anything wrong. Like I was the crazy one and that I’m a liar for telling him I care about him but then blocking him on everything. Like I’m supposed to just stick around when I’m not getting treated right. Now I’m full of anger and I don’t know how to process this. I’m thinking about therapy but has anyone gone through something similar to this and what did you do?