What is something/somethings that you absolutely cannot stand from a partner? Meaning what is the one thing, or multiple things that makes you go “nope can’t do it, I am done”?
What is something/somethings that you absolutely cannot stand from a partner? Meaning what is the one thing, or multiple things that makes you go “nope can’t do it, I am done”?
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To quote Mae West- “what, only one?”
I’ve got about a million. It’s part of why I’m single by choice, lol.
Insecurity is my “no.”
Constant doom and gloom. I can’t be outraged at everything. I wouldn’t be able to stick around with the constant suffering, shame, guilt and imposed responsibility if a s/o was constantly forcing it on me. I also think it’s quite narcissistic to be so deeply involved in things that you sacrifice your peace too much. Cause is it truly about the issue or is it about you getting that dopamine/cortisol hit and some unpacked trauma?
There has to be some good days. We can’t save it all and that is the unfair reality in life sometimes.
Noisy chewing (the chewing break up was not my post lol), lack of ambition and direction, rudeness to others and looking down on people, constant complaining but no action, lack of personal responsibility, not recycling, men who can’t cook, smoking, and drug use.
Ok here’s a two-in-one that might get downvoted lmao but I was talking to this guy who seemed cool except he kept asking for my opinion re: which Amazon furniture thing he should buy and not only did it turn me off that he was buying furniture off Amazon but it was incessant asking for my opinion lmao
mind you, we hadn’t even met in person yet. Like, I could NOT be bothered. we were both in our thirties and employed, and buying quality things from small businesses is VERY important to me, as is not supporting Amazon.