What do you share on Reddit that you wouldn’t share with your partner (and would you be upset if your partner shared things here, anonymously, that they wouldn’t share with you)?
What do you share on Reddit that you wouldn’t share with your partner (and would you be upset if your partner shared things here, anonymously, that they wouldn’t share with you)?
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Nothing, my husband knows my account name, and a few times when something I’ve put has got a fair few upvotes, he gets excited if I end up in his front page.
Nothing at all, I try to be honest in real life
I might talk about past relationships on here that he doesn’t know the details of, and doesn’t really care to know. I wouldn’t be mad if he did the same. We all need an outlet to process our past actions and decisions.
I probably also complain about some of the things he does that annoy me more than I do to his face. It’s not that he doesn’t hear about it, or I won’t tell him after putting it on Reddit, but there are just some things that he’s never fully going to correct in order to please me, and there’s no point in nagging at him constantly.
It’s not that I don’t wouldn’t share with him but I would rather share with the community I’m part of. For example, I’m a huge Swiftie so I don’t share all my thoughts and feelings about Taylor Swift and her music with my partner because I would probably drive him nuts haha but I can hop on Reddit and nerd out with my fellow Swifties that get it.
I would be upset if he was talking about our relationship with strangers on the internet instead of with me. But I know he’s on his niche interest subreddits doing the same thing I am in mine, nerding out with people who get it.
I only share with ChatGPT. I’m on Reddit to spew my overzealous opinions onto the world
Nothing. I am honest sometimes to a fault. I often have to remind people that I will answer honestly so make you want the answer.
As for my BF… he is his own person. I love seeing what he posts on here. We both have our own autonomy. Neither of us own each other. The things we share is up to us.
One example for me is: other people’s sensitive information that has nothing to do with my partner. Like it’s one thing to anonymously tell Reddit “yeah, someone in my family went through that same thing…” where no one knows who I’m talking about, but sometimes it’s another thing to share that story with my partner who can piece together who that family member is.
I don’t hide anything
The only thing a partner could hide from me that I’d be upset about is if they drink alcohol, since that is my biggest deal breaker
I’m just here to be a troll 👌🤪
Who wouldn’t be upset to see a partner confide in strangers in preference to telling you?
he knows my account. I don’t share anything here that I wouldn’t share with him IRL. if I want a fake online persona i’ll go play barbie make over or something 🤣
Nothing and yes I would. You should be able to talk with the person you picked spending forever with about anything.
My opinion anyway. To each their own, is also an opinion of mine.
My partner and I both are on Reddit, but we’ve never cared to see each other’s profiles nor asked to know the contents of it.
He’s welcome to share whatever he feels like on here and so am I.
I don’t believe sharing Reddit accounts or the contents of it reflects on a relationship in any capacity.
Even in a happy relationship we both still want at least some online privacy/anonymity! I don’t need or want to be on every single inch of my partners business like that lol.
It’s not things I wouldn’t, but it’s things I haven’t yet, simply because they haven’t come up. If they were to come up I would share them with him.
We met on reddit so we know each other’s usernames.
Nothing. My husband knows my user name and occasionally likes my comments.
My husband uses the same username on EVERYTHING. I commented on a local page once and he responded to me. We carried on an entire conversation in the comments. I had to go tell him it was me 🤣 I had been very complimentary of him the entire time as “my husband says…” etc. he talked about me too. He is so special. 🥰
He knows my randomly generated username now but I can still be me everywhere because he forgot. 🤷🏼♀️
My dude follows my account, and knows everythinggg about me.
Eh he knows pretty much everything but I vent here and with him I would be more tactful.
I think everyone deserves privacy to vent and so I wouldn’t be mad. Maybe certain specific things might hurt me but I guess that’s part of why I don’t look..that and also cuz i believe it’s a respect issue.
I never did until he did it lol
Literally went onto reddit to ask other men who are total strangers about me being upset with him for checking out other women. 🤣
Damn the more I’m on reddit the more I realize what a tool he was. 🤦♀️💀
My husband introduced me to reddit so he knows my profile. He has a bad habit of popping up and replying to my comments 🙄.
Hey babe 🤣 stop reading my comments and get back to work. 😝
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My partner and I don’t tell each other our reddit usernames. Sometimes we just want to yell into the void, yo
Nothing. My husband knows about my account – he was even a guest star one time (we did some trend together on MBTI sub and it was a very fun experience). He has no social media, but we know each other well, so I know what his boundaries are.
And I think he sometimes read my comments to stroke his ego because I brag about him a lot haha
If I’m in a mood I often post up ridiculous inaccurate answers to pompous questions and let everyone go in the offensive at me do I have an excuse to get really ratty right back at them. Does me the world of good.
I mean. My husband knows I use Reddit. He knows the stories I post on here typically. He just might be tired of hearing about them.
I believe having an outlet is okay.
It’s not that i wouldn’t tell, is just sometimes some things are better left unspoken, not because you hide something,but because it’s really not importaint to disscus because it would create tensions which are torally not neccesary.
For example my friend had a coworker at her job,who got sick and had nothing to eat and she told her bf she will go and brought him lunch from her grandma, she went and he opened the door in his underwear only,trying to make her hook up with him.. she never told this to her bf,because she did nothing it was on that guy only. And i think such things are truly not worth talking about and creating drama about it.