Aita for not wanting to go to my godmothers wedding? A month or so a go I had went dress shopping with my godmother and cousins and mother , while my godmother was going through the dresses she asked for my input on them for one of the dresses I said ” oh that’s very pretty” my godmother just smiled everything is fine right? But , when we go to eat later that day (my godmother. Found her dress which is really pretty I think she looked good in it and was happy for her ) one of my cousins we will call her “M” said She will be surprised if she sees my name in a dress and not in a tuxedo , mind. You I never wore a tuxedo in my life only have I ever worn dresses to events that were required for it . My godmother comments “ my name dresses more like a guy she probably will be in a tuxedo “ mind you I was wearing jeans and a hoodie I was just being comfortable in my clothes , my godmother mentions how she wants me to be a brides maid but I feel offended about implying that I dress like a male ( which personally I don’t I just want to be comfy) the weddings not for another year I need advise if I don’t go would I be the ass hole? and should I go? Her comment hurt my feelings.
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Backup of the post’s body: Aita for not wanting to go to my godmothers wedding? A month or so a go I had went dress shopping with my godmother and cousins and mother , while my godmother was going through the dresses she asked for my input on them for one of the dresses I said ” oh that’s very pretty” my godmother just smiled everything is fine right? But , when we go to eat later that day (my godmother. Found her dress which is really pretty I think she looked good in it and was happy for her ) one of my cousins we will call her “M” said She will be surprised if she sees my name in a dress and not in a tuxedo , mind. You I never wore a tuxedo in my life only have I ever worn dresses to events that were required for it . My godmother comments “ my name dresses more like a guy she probably will be in a tuxedo “ mind you I was wearing jeans and a hoodie I was just being comfortable in my clothes , my godmother mentions how she wants me to be a brides maid but I feel offended about implying that I dress like a male ( which personally I don’t I just want to be comfy) the weddings not for another year I need advise if I don’t go would I be the ass hole? and should I go? Her comment hurt my feelings.
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First things first, sit down with your godmother and tell her your feelings. Be honest, and if you truly don’t want to be a bridesmaid, let her know asap so she can find a replacement.
NTA if you take care of these conversations asap. You would be an AH if you wait until the last minute.