Okay, so I am 32 weeks pregnant with our second baby. I have had a complex pregnancy but luckily baby and I are both healthy aside from potentially have a medical induction at 37 weeks. We are LC/NC with my MIL per my husband’s request as a lot of issues we have had with her in the past year. That being said she has not contacted us outside of an occasional text here and there requesting pictures of our first baby (who is almost 2). She knows I am pregnant but has not once asked about how baby is doing and only continues to ask “why haven’t I seen you all,” when she already knows as we have tried talking with her over it and she denies it or ignores it completely.
With that being said ik when our baby is born she will beg to see baby and when she doesn’t she will play the victim card per usual to all her family. My husband is dead set against her seeing or meeting baby until we all can talk like adults however I know with her the chances of her sitting down for a adult convo are slim to none.
Amy input on this? At this point it feels like we will be NC forever.
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If you are no contact forever that would be ok. Your husband made the choice to be nc with his mother. Let him take the lead on this one. Enjoy your peace because it sounds like even if you do have a chat with her, and she does happen to take accountability, the good behaviour won’t last long and you’ll be wishing you stayed no contact