Doesn’t matter that “grief is a unique experience” and they “sought comfort in each other,” or whatever weird justifications people give.. would you really want your bestfriend or sibling hooking up with your wife / husband after you’re gone? That means they were actually attracted to that person the entire time. Yes I get that you’re dead & wouldn’t have thoughts or feelings about it, but it’s still awful, gross and immoral.
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How is this take unpopular?
I think this is a really common phenomenon. I think it probably is an unpopular opinion so I’m gonna give you an upvote.
Nope, you missed the part where I’m dead. I’m no longer in the ghost business of genital policing. Go nuts, kids!
It’s actually very common for this to happen. I had a friend whose mom was a widow and she married her deceased husband‘s brother. All sorts of fucked up.
Who cares, you’re dead. I have given exactly zero thought to what my loved ones will do after I literally don’t exist. Let the living live.
I think it depends on whether you like your siblings or really enjoy your friends as people. Who best to take care and love my partner when I’m gone then the next best person in my life?
when people look for ‘love’ they don’t tend to look very far
Naaa. They’re dead. They won’t care.
They’re dead though. How’s it different from them remarrying jimbo from down the road?
Just the thought of it makes me sad
If it was truly organic, I’d be grateful that my best friend is taking care of my widow. I wouldn’t be there anymore to take care of her and our family. If there is some kind of afterlife, I think I’d be thankful.
Why would I be against two people I loved while I was alive finding more happiness after I’m dead and don’t even know about it? How can someone be so jealous that they’re worried about something happening after they’re dead and literally can’t care?
Better than watching them roll the dice with someone I don’t know and trust. She’s been through enough, whatever makes her happy.
I can give you the family part, but a friend I disagree
Someone’s insecure about their hotter sibling
Laughs in Michael Ballack
i wouldnt care. id be dead.