OP I understand why you’ve made this post. I know you’re not asking for advice but I’m going to throw some your way. No matter what attraction you may have you’re not going to be anything to this man, because you’re not hasidic. Don’t get invested, emotionally or physically!!
If this feels to you like you’re confessing it’s probably because on some level you know what’s up.
This is relatable. I dated a Hasidic guy a few years back, and it had to be a complete secret. Just don’t fall for him the way I did with mine, he’s always gonna pick his way of life over you.
Sorry, OP. I feel like some of the commenters aren’t familiar with theHasidic Jewish community there in Brooklyn and don’t see why it’s a bit surprising. Either way, love this friendship for both of you. What things did you initially bond over? And what does he say about his attraction for you?
Such an unfortunate situation. Kind of a heart breaking situation because it’s highly unlikely that he will leave his religion. And even if he did have the heart to do that one day, they will either treat you poorly or he will be disowned. I hope you guys can at least be friends to some extent.
Boy am I sick of all the rampant racism in the USA. Its exhausting and seems much more amplified with this crazy MAGA movement. I hope you have something special with him whoever this is that you’re meeting up with. To live in a world where you are simply accepted for who you are. Maybe in another lifetime. 🙏
Nobody cares just do your bed wench duties and keep it pushing. Im from Brooklyn and I’M very familiar with Crown Heights. Nostrand ave Eastern Parkway etc etc
Sounds like the plot for an a story of overcoming differences and finding love! Or just an interesting anecdote if you meet somebody who’s a better match.
These people in these comments are probably not from NY and don’t understand lol Hasidic Jews have whole areas that are just Jewish people and they don’t like outsiders and they just marry their own people so that’s why this is “abnormal” (not saying there’s anything wrong with it of course but the culture is different)
Whatever works for you guys. Just make sure you’re on the same page on how you plan to move forward with whatever you see the relationship developing into.
These comments are actually insane. It’s all just people who don’t know any hasidic jews or black people explaining why this is such an unlikely and special dynamic. this shit is normal in crown heights.
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Wow. Isn’t there a New Yorker cover about this?
How’d you guys meet?
This is a rather bland confession.
Are you sneaking bacon in his food? Are you already married? Are you a lesbian? Was he your 3rd grade teacher?
How do you see this playing out?
I do not understand why this is a confession. Someone please explain.
I’m black girl married to a red headed Irish man, what’s the confession?
You and your bestie are both good-looking folks. Such a wholesome confession.
Is there something shameful about hanging out with Hasidic/Jewish people? Why is this a confession?
I have an actual confession. I’ve been the Hasidic man the whole time, I just didn’t know how to tell you
Obviously, y’all don’t live in Crown Heights to understand how nuanced this is. OP, how did y’all’s “friendship” develop?
OP I understand why you’ve made this post. I know you’re not asking for advice but I’m going to throw some your way. No matter what attraction you may have you’re not going to be anything to this man, because you’re not hasidic. Don’t get invested, emotionally or physically!!
If this feels to you like you’re confessing it’s probably because on some level you know what’s up.
What are you waiting for? Have sex with the guy!!
Who cares
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I adore a progressive love story 🥰
..and even if it’s just a friendship story
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I dated a black girl that lived in Forest Hills and she was treated very poorly by the local Hasidic population.
It shouldn’t be a big deal that you made a new friend but I understand why it is in this case. I hope everything works out for you two!
I’m a black man and I used to have a rotation of 4 white women I had sex with on a weekly basis. Some married.
See? Nobody cares.
How old are you?
Let him put his matzoh balls into your bowl of soup.
This is relatable. I dated a Hasidic guy a few years back, and it had to be a complete secret. Just don’t fall for him the way I did with mine, he’s always gonna pick his way of life over you.
Let him go and move on.
What does this mean?
You got an encounter with a rare NPC
I need all the details on this…is he not afraid that someone will find out? Do you guys text or talk on the phone?
Sorry, OP. I feel like some of the commenters aren’t familiar with theHasidic Jewish community there in Brooklyn and don’t see why it’s a bit surprising. Either way, love this friendship for both of you. What things did you initially bond over? And what does he say about his attraction for you?
I think that’s cool! You are opening up his world, and learning about his.
Such an unfortunate situation. Kind of a heart breaking situation because it’s highly unlikely that he will leave his religion. And even if he did have the heart to do that one day, they will either treat you poorly or he will be disowned. I hope you guys can at least be friends to some extent.
Boy am I sick of all the rampant racism in the USA. Its exhausting and seems much more amplified with this crazy MAGA movement. I hope you have something special with him whoever this is that you’re meeting up with. To live in a world where you are simply accepted for who you are. Maybe in another lifetime. 🙏
With the sideburns?
Nobody cares just do your bed wench duties and keep it pushing. Im from Brooklyn and I’M very familiar with Crown Heights. Nostrand ave Eastern Parkway etc etc
Sounds like the plot for an a story of overcoming differences and finding love! Or just an interesting anecdote if you meet somebody who’s a better match.
These people in these comments are probably not from NY and don’t understand lol Hasidic Jews have whole areas that are just Jewish people and they don’t like outsiders and they just marry their own people so that’s why this is “abnormal” (not saying there’s anything wrong with it of course but the culture is different)
Whatever works for you guys. Just make sure you’re on the same page on how you plan to move forward with whatever you see the relationship developing into.
Did you curl his payot?
This is definitely mad Brooklyn
I’d watch this movie.
I see no problem here .
Conservative Jewish men are known for fucking black women and then using “their religion” when they dump them. So, watch out!
A make friend of mine was propositioned by a hasid and proceeded to go to a coke and booze rager with him. They get down for sure
I tried this. Converted orthodox for him. I still wasn’t good enough.
That sounds like the beginning of a New York Times Bestselling novel. Lol. “There i was, with my Hasidic neighbor every Friday when…….”. Lol.
These comments are actually insane. It’s all just people who don’t know any hasidic jews or black people explaining why this is such an unlikely and special dynamic. this shit is normal in crown heights.
Well if Sammy Davis Jr can do it so can I dammit.