i was really stoned when my mom called me. i asked her “hii why are you calling” and she answered “well you should know that”. geez, i completely forgot it was her birthday today. a week ago, she had asked me to come over today and i forgot. i feel really bad abt it because i moved to my dad which was also hurting her. damn it how does one fix this?
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Maybe now is the time.
Some good weed there lol
Its still today & you can still go see her.
come to the house tomorrow or soon and say im sorry for missing your birthday. Start from there
If weed starts to affect your daily life i think itâs time to take a break buddy. You just not that guy who can smoke weed and function well. Itâs okay not many can do what we can đ
Go right now
I would apologize and do something special for her. Consider cutting back on the weed too. You donât want that to cause a rift in your relationships with your family.
I imagine what your mom wants most in this world is for you to be healthy and happy. The best gift you could give her is an apology, a hug, and a commitment to get your life on the right path. Smoking weed isn’t a big deal until it starts to interfere with your ability to be productive and engaged in the world. Start writing reminder notes and make a commitment that you’ll do what you need to do before you get high in the future.
Call her and tell her you’re so sorry and that you were still half awake but realized that it’s today and that you love her
This reminds me of those commercials of the kid sitting on the curb at night because big brother forgot to pick him up
He was stoned on the couch sleeping
Anybody remember those? lol
Plan a day for you and your mom to hang out. And whatever she wanna do you do it. Easy fix
Could be worseâŠ
https://youtu.be/WeYsTmIzjkw?si=TAq7wel5SDqyPtvm
I forgot to call my mother on her birthday some years ago. She died a horrible death a couple of months ago, I think about that missed birthday too much now. Call her tomorrow, or better go and see her.
I was gonna clean my room…
I was going to clean my room, but I got high
Dude just go see her with your flowers in hand
I forgot my moms birthday too recently, i drove to my hometown with flowers the next day and spent some time with her
oh dude come on
Just tell her you are in another continent and the day just started
Honestly OP, if getting high allows you to forget your motherâs birthday, you have more to fix than you think. Get your stuff together and if you really care for her , show her. She you
Show her *
Afro man?
Eventually you start to forget who you are
Thatâs probably a sign to put the smoke down with peace and love lmfao. If your mom matters to you and you want to show her she sheâs not alone or unimportant, You shouldâve been there for her birthday. Sober up and go see her. You only get so many birthdays, you gotta be there. Smoke when you get home. Anything. as someone whose dad just passed recently donât smoke away your important days. â€ïž
Good job.
Go see her? Dude the day just started – no sense in feeling sorry for yourself đ
I’m confused why you don’t just go right now
Damn bro. Never heard of a calendar?
Invite her a nice lunch at a nice restaurant and get her 5 massages at a spa, all for free, one month from now give her random flowers to her work, let her know your appreciate her existence.
Your parents must be so proud
If weed is affecting you this much itâs time to cut back or quit – alcohol affects me like this and I had to quit. Weed on the other hand does not affect me like this. Iâve noticed some people get so high they loose ability to function at all.
âBecause I got highâ
âWhy are you callingâ to your mom goes crazy wtf lol
go see her and bring something to make her smile.
Been there before⊠try not to beat yourself up too much about it
When something starts to interfere with friends and family (be that a job, a relationship or a vice) you should consider distancing yourself a bit from it.
It could help to lay off of it for a bit
stop smoking weed and go hangout with your mom câmon buddy its not rocket science
Been there
As a parent who’s kid doesn’t know when my birthday is I will say it doesn’t bother me and it doesn’t lessen my love for them
So what. Sheâs a mess to call and remind you. Just let it go.
Sucks to be you. Shows where your priorities are choosing to be high rather than remembering the person that gave you life.
You want to truly make up for it? Admit to her WHY you missed her birthday. That’ll show strength as a person.
I was gonna go to work, but then i got high
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Dam, thatâs just wrong đ
I forgot my mom’s birthday… because I got high đ¶ bah da da dadadah
You apologize and you take accountability for yourself. Like youâre doing here youâre taking accountability for your actions, but you need to do that to your mother. You need to say Iâm sorry I was wrong. I was high and wasnât thinking in my right mind.
Because I canât tell you how many times my son who is an addict has forgotten my birthday ⊠and I will never get that reply from him.
If you love your mom, youâll do the right thing
Time to realize youâve got a substance abuse problem.
Afro man should add this lyric to his song
Because i got high because i got high because i gott highighighighieyeeeee
I was gonna clean my room until I got high
I was gonna get up and find the broom, but then I got high.
My room is still messed up, and I know why….
This might a sign itâs time to quit weed
today is not yet over, go to your mom now
Because i got high đ¶
Itâll happen
Your initials wouldnât be ODB because thatâs a good song..
I’ve forgotten my mums birthday before bcse she doesn’t like to bring it up. Just admit u forgot and make up for it by doing something nice. It’s fine
Quit. Your Mom will only be around for so long. Best to spend quality time and cherish her.
It’s okay, my mom’s was last week and I forgot too. I wasn’t high tho. My dad forgot too tho, so he got flamed for it more
Go see her today
I was gonna get up and find the broom, but I was high.
Dude you gotta treat your mom better
You have a phone. Put your momâs recurring birthday in there, and go apologize.
Show up at her place with a gift and tell her you had just woken up from a nap and didnât know what was going on.
Turn up with flowers and make it right
Daaa dah duh dadeda
Maybe thisâll motivate you to drop the drugs.
When you woke up it never occurred to you that it was her birthday? The day before, maybe? A week ago you didnât think âhey momâs birthday is coming upâ? You sound selfish.
Imagine she does the same on yours.
Because I got high because I got high because I got high…
Bro what the answer is simple, organise to go see your mum ASAP you should feel bad sheâs probably very upset
Reading this made me sad. I would never let drugs get in the way of just being there for my family, especially on important days. Be better
God I feel so bad for your mom. Imagine this is how your kid treats you, it would feel so bad as a parent to have ur kid not even remember your bday. So donât just ask people what you should do and donât complain, actually create positive changes in your life (for u it seems like cutting back on weed especially)
Because I was high
Because I was high
Because I was high
I heard that song when I read your confession
I’m reminded of the song by Afroman, Cause I got high
Tell her you are really sorry, put the weed away, spend time with her.
Average stoner blowing off people in life because a plant is more important to them
My mom has forgotten several of my birthdays because she was drunk
It gets forgiven, never forgotten
My mom died earlier this month and I think you should be ashamed. I would admittedly react different while she was alive tho
Because I got high because I got high because I got high ladadadadada
Be an adult. Apologize, do something nice for her.
Tell her not us lol