Since masturbation is an extremely intimate act, it isn’t something you normally discuss publicly and makes a lot of people uncomfortable, but I guess some therapists might be fine with it, but how would you know that?
Since masturbation is an extremely intimate act, it isn’t something you normally discuss publicly and makes a lot of people uncomfortable, but I guess some therapists might be fine with it, but how would you know that?
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You could do but you might just sound like a wanker
It’s fine. It’s a part of their job.
I have told me therapist every last little “kink”. Shit my wife doesn’t even know.
You have to tell him if you have porn addiction If you want to recover from that
I told everybody my masturbation habits. I’m not allowed in Tesco anymore…
My therapist knows shit I’ve never told another person, how am I supposed to get help otherwise
If you believe it needs to be talked about then sure.
i would pay people to tell me their kinks tbh
It’s only weird if you make it so.
No way! They’re not there to hear about your problems! That’s what reddit is for!
As long as it’s not your physiotherapist it’ll probably be ok 😒👍
If it’s relevant to your treatment? Yes. Nothing is sacred, and they have heard it all. Just don’t make it weird.
Tell them,yes. show them, no
As weird as you think it may be, they have heard a lot worse, and are not judging. They will approach it clinically and they to figure out the best way to make you comfortable with yourself
Are they a mental therapist or a sex therapist
Your therapist will tell you where the line is.
I don’t think a therapist would see it as weird or uncomfortable however depending on their profession and experience they simply might not feel qualified to address sexual issues.
At your next session I would say “I feel I have certain issues around masturbation I would like to discuss. Is that something I can bring here or can you recommend a service who would be more suitable”.
That way they aren’t caught off guard and they can advise you as best they can.
I think if you feel like it’s an issue, like you’re addicted to porn or if you’ve gotten busted and it led to problems beyond just being embarrassed, you ought to mention it.
Tell them everything regardless of how uncomfortable it is. If the act is relevant to why you’re there especially. In therapy you never know what part of yourself you’ve yet to learn or understand.
Therapist here. Nothing is too awkward and weird
Don’t just say “oh hi Dr blank, I burp the worm too much”. Lead up to it. If it’s a female then I probably wouldn’t personally. That’s only because I don’t know your relationship with them. You may have a good dynamic with them. Only you can judge that. Use terms like ‘there’s some sensitive things on my mind’ or ‘I have a concern about some adult themed topics. Is it ok to talk about this here?’ I hope you do end up getting some feedback of the positive kind. Best.
Uh ok course! The more you share the more they can improve your outlook on life 🙂
I don’t talk about sex with my therapist, tbh…
Yes. If they start masturbating slowly whilst you relay the story, you can tell it’s having the intended effect
If it makes your therapist uncomfortable, then I would suggest finding a different one.
I mean maybe stop masturbating while you’re in the session, but yeah I’d assume it’s fair game.
Talk about anything. The more pieces to your puzzle you can both see will allow clarity and afford you the full benefits of therapy. Any b experienced therapist has heard pretty much everything. Enjoy the freedom of this trust!
Just ask your therapist dawg
This is like one of the most normal things a therapist could hear
I’ll be your therapist. Tell me everything
I’ve talked to my doctor about my masturbation habits
The therapist will be understanding and professional, but I can’t promise they don’t anonymously discuss you at dinner.