Mine was when he told me about his ex
“She’s better cuz she has more money over u”
Too stunned, no filter..just that. Like I was nothing because I couldn’t provide or spoil him financially. It hit me hard because I was giving everything I could emotionally, mentally, and even physically, but apparently, that wasn’t enough. That sentence lives rent-free in my head zz
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“You’re not as good as you think you are”
We worked together and I won an award.
He said I would probably end up getting raped if I left him so yeah
When we were in a light argument and I genuinely asked her to explain her point of view and she said “I don’t have to explain anything just because my boyfriend is fucking dense?”. I broke up with her shortly after
He wanted sex while I was crying because of the grief from my beloved grandma‘s passing. He told me „Your grandma wouldn’t want you to be so cruel and unsympathetic towards me“.
That was the last straw for me.
After I expressed I wanted to get professional mental help because my depression was leaving me indecisive, directionless, and constantly making bad choices/non-choices:
“If either of us goes to a professional, they’ll tell us to break up.”
Knowing how much I loved her and wanted nothing more than to stay with her, with that one sentence she effectively shit scared me out of getting either of us the help we clearly needed. Then she left anyway.
11 years together? Stopped her being suicidal? Saved her life innumerable times? Gave her free reign and help to chase her dreams in any way she saw fit? None of it fucking mattered because I didn’t magically make my mental health better fast enough for her liking.
I don’t think she has even the slightest clue how badly that’s fucked me up.
My ex told me I was a bad mom.
Background info: my ex husband died from an accidental drug overdose. He was a good guy, but struggled mentally.
After my ex husband died, I dated a POS. He once told me, and I quote, “No wonder Dan killed himself to get away from you.”
She would make up her own realities. Had borderline personality disorder. Ended the relationship by labelling me as a pedo, harrasser and gas lighter.
I’d been seeing this woman for a few months and one night she noticed me outside her window and said “who are you? Leave me alone, I’m calling the police.”
ewh that’s disgusting. My ex knew i loved to sing and pretty much told me to never sing again lol
That I was strong physically, but weak at my core