What’s with people ghosting and coming back a year later low effort with no apology?

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From exes to ex friends, it happens a bit to people I know and has happened to me.

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  2. TheMightyGrimm Avatar

    They either don’t remember doing it or don’t see it as ghosting because they may have had a genuine reason for not being there

  3. BillyJayJersey505 Avatar

    Some people just lack self-awareness.

  4. Ieatclowns Avatar

    Covid happened. It affected a lot of people’s mental health.

  5. Environmental_Row32 Avatar

    Live happened, they wanted to answer that message/show up, something came up, they didn’t do it for a long while, felt bad, did not reach out, time did its thing they feel less ashamed, they come back.