I (17m) have been dating this beautiful woman (17f) since the past 2 years. We have had our ups and downs and i treated her like shit. My girlfriend has a very important exam coming up in the next few days. She has been studying really hard. But i have been making it so tough for her. Every night i fuck up and we fight. My friend suddenly invited me to a sleepover tonight. I told my girl i wont be going. But at around midnight she called me, we talked for hardly 5 mins and i told her i wanna go. She was clearly upset. She hung up and didnt pick up . I told her i will be waiting for her call cause i had left my house. She call so i left for my friends house like an idiot. She wanted to sleep early. Its 3am now. She just called me and broke it up with me. I am scared as fuck as to what to do. I dont wanna end it with her. But she deserves the best and i keep fucking it up. Please help. And if u read this, please call me…
TL;DR: i am an asshole and i wanna die cause i keep on making the love of my life cry. I dont wanna end it with her. Please help.
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You sound like you’re in distress. Do you want some advice?
I read this twice, and truly I don’t understand what you fought about.
Both of you need to get a full nights sleep, eat a proper meal, and then sit down and talk. Being tired and hungry is not a good state in which to have an argument.
You couldn’t be her peace, nothing to do just own it. She sounds more mature than you, I can understand her decision more than your whole side of the story.
Get some sleep. Give things a few days. If you’re worried you’ll keep fucking up then take the time you need to work on yourself. Relationships are only as strong as the weakest link.
I know you don’t want to hear this because I was 17 and in love once, but man don’t force something that isn’t working. Women are everywhere and you have the rest of your life to meet them.
You have so much time to grow and learn. Allow yourself to understand your shortcomings and work on those things so you have the ability to be a better man in the next relationship.