Recently, I (26 F) ended things with my partner of 7 months. We started as something extremely casual and later developed feelings. I tend to only want casual relations as I have two jobs and my lack of time would be unfair for someone who wants a serious, committed relationship, but she was willing to work with me. I’ve been struggling with money so I decided to take on a third job and ended things with her because now I really won’t have any time at all for a proper relationship. The thing is, I still like having casual relations but I’d only be able to do so on random, odd days. I’m obviously not going to ask her for that after just ending things. Would it be unethical for me to hop on tinder so soon?
Would this be unethical?
r/ask
Comments
📣 Reminder for our users
>1. Check the rules: Please take a moment to review our rules, Reddiquette, and Reddit’s Content Policy.
>2. Clear question in the title: Make sure your question is clear and placed in the title. You can add details in the body of your post, but please keep it under 600 characters.
>3. Closed-Ended Questions Only: Questions should be closed-ended, meaning they can be answered with a clear, factual response. Avoid questions that ask for opinions instead of facts.
>4. Be Polite and Civil: Personal attacks, harassment, or inflammatory behavior will be removed. Repeated offenses may result in a ban. Any homophobic, transphobic, racist, sexist, or bigoted remarks will result in an immediate ban.
🚫 Commonly Asked Prohibited Question Subjects:
>1. Medical or pharmaceutical questions
>2. Legal or legality-related questions
>3. Technical/meta questions (help with Reddit)
This list is not exhaustive, so we recommend reviewing the full rules for more details on content limits.
✓ Mark your answers!
>If your question has been answered, please reply with
Answered!!to the response that best fit your question. This helps the community stay organized and focused on providing useful answers.I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.
That’s up to you to decide for yourself. I might be downvoted for saying so but you don’t owe anyone anything. You’re single, no commitments and free to do as you wish. I wouldn’t flaunt any new relationships in front of the ex, especially if you care about their feelings but do what makes you happy