My boyfriend(21M) and I(19M) have been dating for a few months now. We never had any arguement or anything like that. The only issue I have is the fact that he sometimes is completely cold towards me for no reason. It’s like a light switch. Once hes caring and thoughtfull next day he ignores me and refuses to talk. As far as i know he enjoyes having his own space and likes to be alone. While we have different attachment styles I always encourage him to communicate when he needs space etc. because he tends ti shut down when he’s feeling down. It happened a few times already and it makes me spiral. I’m in constant worry wheter i did some wrong or what i did wrong. We recently went o trip to a different city. Everything was great throughout the trip, but the minute we came back he was ubearably cold towards me. When i asked him if I did something wrong all i got was “No, we’ll talk later” . I was supposed to stay the night after the trip at his appareny but i left in the morning and he just say bye and thats it. He didnt even make me a breakfast as he always does. It happened few times already and all i got was “I was just feeling down” or something along those lines. I encourage him to talk to me and communicate things like that but its like talking to the wall. Am I overreacting? Is it worth to trying? Im spiraling.
TLDR: My boyfriend is every now and then cold towards me for no reason. What should I do?