What’s with the French hate?

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Hey so absolutely no mean thoughts here. This is a genuine question. I’m French and look, I know we’re not better than other countries. I laughed at the trends at first but it has led some people to be openly mean to me on servers (people I had literally never interacted with became jerks just because they learned I was French)
Please avoid hate, this is an actual question. Where is this coming from? Thank you

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  2. lifebeginsat9pm Avatar

    I think this is a common trend of how hate of some nationalities happens: it starts as a funny joke, then people bring up vague reasons to actually hate it (French people are rude, Paris is shit etc) and people take that as an excuse to full on hate.

    Same thing happened with China. People claimed it was hate of their government or covid related. Really 90% of it was an excuse to make fun of their accents and music and dumb social credit jokes. It’s pathetic.

  3. Royalblue146 Avatar

    I don’t get it myself, I’m Canadian and I love France and never had a bad interaction with a French person.

  4. Ok_Homework_7621 Avatar

    We’re in Belgium, had a French person scoff at me because of the way we say 90. I guess it goes both ways.

  5. CBWeather Avatar

    I expect this is something that is about 700 years old and derives from the traditional antagonism between England and France. Check out the Auld Alliance between Scotland and France. It’s traditional.

  6. Bobaloo53 Avatar

    American here. I hear it from others at times and I’ll usually counter it with the facts to put a stop to it. Uncalled for!

  7. BillWeld Avatar

    Groundskeeper Willy? Isn’t it he who said “It is good to hate the French”? I’m not sure. However I do remember submitting a limerick to a contest Jonah Goldberg ran before the start of the original Gulf War. It had to begin with with the first two lines:

    There once was a nation called France

    that became such a pain in the pants

    she lay down supine

    with Sadam’s rapine

    all for the sake of finance

  8. MarkoHelgenko Avatar

    Dude, I understand that the English behave nastily during the time of Joan of Arc, but it was so long ago that even you have people who don’t know what it’s about.

    I’m talking about your attitude towards the English language.

    Yes, I have experienced this personally.

    No, I’m not an Englishman.

    I’m from Ukraine, I live in Ukraine and I’m not going to leave.

  9. Odd-Editor-2530 Avatar

    Canadian. Love the French.

  10. Drunk0ctopus Avatar

    I bought a used MAS 36 in a gun store. The owner said it was never fired and only dropped once.

  11. SilverDem0n Avatar

    Jerks will be jerks as a first priority. Finding a thing to be jerksome about is a second priority. If it wasn’t for your being French, they would select some other attribute about you to target their jerkitude.

    I’m currently in UK and you’d be surprised at how many Francophiles there are here. The old rivalry and “complicated” history between France and England is now just a lazy punchline for dumb jokes. It’s not a real hatred, it’s just a lame shortcut for people who cannot tell jokes.

    There was a dumb thing from the Iraq-USA war about renaming “french fries” to “freedom fries” many years ago. I cannot remember the details, and I suspect most people cannot remember it either. Again, just a lazy punchline for lame jokes.

    Love to France from your UK+EU family!

  12. cramber-flarmp Avatar

    French people are unrepentant snobs, but the hate is because it seems they have good reason to be.

  13. craig-charles-mum Avatar

    I don’t hate French people and I’m English. When I’ve visited France I had some pretty rude treatment, even as a kid in 1999.

    When I was with my parents they would be speaking French to whoever we encountered and when I visited with my ex she would speak French for us, so it’s not like we were the typical Brits abroad.

    I’ve been to a few places in France but I don’t want to go to Paris again, it totally sucked balls. I feel the same about London to be fair.

    I think it’s a mix of bad personal experiences with the stereotype of France as rude cheese eating surrender monkeys with a superiority complex who couldn’t wait to kick us out right after we’d won two wars for them. Not that I subscribe to this.

  14. nibs123 Avatar

    As a Brit, it brings me joy knowing our campaign of hating the french has started to catch on after 1000 years.

  15. SirFelsenAxt Avatar

    Well the US exported it’s culture around the world after WW2 and the US gets its French hate both from the fact that the American colonies were established by England (who were rivals all the way back to when God was just a corporal) and the fact that the American people and France fought a war just before the US’s independence and right after it.

    Also, the fact that a lot of Americans think that the french were ungrateful for taking care of their little German infestation twice in a single generation.

    Ultimately it’s just a cultural meme and my fellow Americans have a lot of growing up to do.