28M, never dated or had a girlfriend but also no desire to?

Guess I’m weird but I think id want a girlfriend, but when I think more about it, the less i want one. I don’t really know anything about coffee or coffeshops, been to Starbucks like twice in my life. Idk anything about resturaunts, I cook at home. So id just look stupid. I don’t really travel anywhere outside my city except occassional business travel which I avoid when I can, so i wouldnt have much to talk about. My interests dont go that far outside of the games i play. Relationships seem hard, lots of commitment and anxiety of anxiety that a mistake can end it all. And if it ends, it feels like i wasted time for no reason