I’ve only been to one only one time and i got out as quick as i got in so i don’t really know. I feel like there isn’t really much room to “socialize” because of the loud music and a lot of alcohol. How do you even talk and have a conversation bruh?
How do people actually socialize in nightclubs?
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I’ve actually met a lot of people going out dancing. I’d go with one friend done by the end of the night we all have met like three people who we stay with the entire night. It’s not like it’s a great place for chatting, but it’s definitely great for Vibing and dancing
You get drunk and say literally anything to other drunk people, it’s not hard
I usually dance with them and sometimes they come to the outside smoking area to chat
I can’t even understand how people tolerate being there in first place, absolutely awful.
„Nice shoes. Wanna fuck?”
But…that’s the point! You get drunk, you talk to as many people as you can and hopefully dance with and meet someone to sleep with, if all goes exceedingly well.
That’s how i lived my life, but in all honesty, it was the 90s and the music was good and people actually went out to clubs on a saturday night…because there was nothing else to do. Oh, and that finding someone to sleep with? Not exactly every weekend to be honest, but my mind was in a weird place too then, which didn’t help.
So if you have a thriving club scene where you live, i would try another club that’s maybe a little quieter.
I used to go a lot in my early twenties. You would come up with something to say to someone, go up to them and say it, if they found you attractive the conversation would keep going, if they thought you were ugly they would walk away.
It’s all in how you define socialize, right? I love the nightclub vibes in movies, and I love dancing at weddings and parties, but nightclubs are a business, and not everyone is their target market.