Hey guys, hopefully you can answer this really quick.
Tomorrow I’m going back to this girls house I’ve been talking to, her and me have hung out like 6-7 times and it’s always been over 10 hours, she’s been to my house and I’ve been to her’s.
We have cuddled, kissed, hugged, basically done everything other than anything sexual. We both are 18.
So basically, tomorrow we were gonna paint on her walls, since her parents don’t really care, and I’ve been wanting to ask her out, so what I wanted to do is paint a little sunset to something cute and then put the words “Can I be your boyfriend?” On top of the painting I painted. And that would be how I ask her out.
Would this be okay? Or should I just be more basic and just ask her with words? I wanted to be a little different.
Thanks
EDIT: When I say paint her walls, I don’t mean a blank wall with just paint, or completely repainting them. I mean as in we were just gonna paint little images or something on top of her walls. Sorry for the confusion!!
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As an old woman, I think this sounds like a very sweet way to ask her.
That’s not a bad idea but i’m more confused with One thing, you and her already did a lot including kissing…Why you aren’t Even a couple already? Why so long to ask her out If she’s probably gonna say YES?
Body paint?
How about, “hey wanna go get something to eat?” after painting. Then maybe “I’m so glad we were able to reconnect. I had such a great time today!”
Women hate to be blindsided even in a good way. Though the idea is very charming, it could also be a red flag.