Being accused of having a STD because I want to be safe and responsible…

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So I HAD a FWB. That ended after I suggested we both get tested and have ice cream after so we can be responsible. I told him how I always get tested every three months and that time is coming up for me. So I suggested that we just go together. He gets defensive and suggests that I think I have an STI. He doesn’t need to get tested and he won’t sleep with me bc “he’s fine”. I tell him atp I don’t feel safe continuing a sexual relationship with him and that I’ll text him if my results come back positive.

Comments

  1. Psychoplasm_ Avatar

    Don’t text him at all. He’s lazy and selfish.

    Find someone who is responsible.

  2. ShinkuDragon Avatar

    a moron
    “hey bro, get tested for more free sex”
    “no”
    “your free sex subscription has been canceled.”

  3. Saturn-Returns-Real Avatar

    Imo hes negging you, hes hoping that you’ll feel offended by his comment and wont go.

    Maybe because he knows he has something, but I dont know for certain obv. That just seems like such a weird thing to me for someone to get so offended over, like youre just being responsible and him getting defensive is just unusual af to me.

  4. HaileyReeBae Avatar

    I had a guy tell me he didn’t need to get tested since my test came back negative. 🙄