What do you find most sexually attractive in your long term partner?

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What do you find most sexually attractive in your long term partner?

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  1. DarkField_SJ Avatar

    He’s always respected my consensual boundaries. I was a slow starter because “reasons”, and he was willing to be patient and walk with me while I got my nerve up – he never pushed me into anything.

    That went back to the very beginning, after he asked me out for the first time (and I said a really bouncy “yes”), then he asked me if I wanted a hug, and waited for my enthusiastic “Yes please!” before he came in for it.

    Love the guy. 🙂

  2. Coloryourdreams2 Avatar

    His hands…..he has very strong and veiny hands proficient in the softest touch yet firmest grip.

    His smell…sometimes I just pull him in close and take a big inhale. He smells like love, passion and cuddles.

    The way he looks at me….like I am the most desirable thing he has ever seen and he is going to devour me and totally rock my world.

  3. Potential_Security43 Avatar

    He knows how much I hate my body so he makes sure I feel better about it and always tells me how much he loves it… Apart from that sexually that he listens to my wants and is happy by making me happy…it’s truly amazing to witness that

  4. velociraptorbreath Avatar

    The way he loves me…and the chest hair 😂

  5. G0ATLY Avatar

    His grin/smile. It’s one of those you know is genuine.

  6. AccurateScience1940 Avatar

    When he shows emotional intelligence and he’s present

  7. question_girl617 Avatar

    His intelligence and seeing him be so good at his job is really hot

  8. my-anonymity Avatar

    There are so many things. I love how he’s so smart, funny, loving, thoughtful. He’s got great arms, hands, legs, and butt. Great smile and eyes. Good hair too.

  9. Famous_Maybe_4678 Avatar

    His gentleness, how sweet he is and loving

  10. PaintedWoman_ Avatar

    His big burly body
    His smile
    How he treats me and makes me feel sexy AF

  11. theorangeyone Avatar

    Lots of little things—his eyes, his smile, his arms, he’s strong, he’s stupid smart, but doesn’t realize it, he’s funny, his little quirks. But the biggest thing is he is unabashedly himself. He’s open and honest and real. He is exactly who he says he is. I knew that was what made him different when I met him, and one of the biggest qualities I was instantly attracted to.

  12. OneJello8221 Avatar

    How his top priority is taking care of me and the kids – from things around the house, to running errands, cooking, ensuring the kids have everything they need for sports and activities, taking care of the vehicle maintenance, etc. Just all the dad/husband shit he does every single day that keeps us all taken care of and happy. Total life competence, without being asked all the time to do stuff.

    His big strong shoulders and chest.

    How he always knows how to make me laugh and make me take things less seriously.

    His beard when he just went to the barbers.

    How he makes sure I know he desires me even after 26 years together and 3 kids.

    He’s just the best. 🙂

  13. Prislv223 Avatar

    His mean girlness/he’s funny. But his ability to critically think.

  14. brandine__spuckler Avatar

    He has gorgeous eyes. I also love his hands and forearms. I love watching him fix the car. I love that he is super hard and masculine on the outside but a sweet softie once you get to know him, who likes candles and will take a detour on the way home to look at autumn foliage.

  15. xpgx Avatar

    There’s a specific smile with a specific look in the eyes that just makes me blush. They’re also reliable and kind and funny and capable, and very smart.

  16. capaldithenewblack Avatar

    His smell, love that spot where neck and shoulder/back meet. I’m always nuzzling in there for a sniff and a kiss.

    His shoulders are very broad. His voice turns me on.

    But most of all it’s how smart he is and how he looks in his glasses. Dear god I am so hot for intelligence that is humble and kind. Give me a smart kind man and I’m putty. He’s not just book smart but he’s emotionally intelligent.

    His eyes. He gets this look when he’s wanting to head to the bedroom that instantly turns me on.

    Probably being in love with each other helps, but damn my man is foine!

  17. Fun-Butterfly-4662 Avatar

    There’s a lot of things, but I’d say the things I find the most attractive about him are his arms + hands and the way he touches me (if that counts haha). Doesn’t even have to be sexual, it just feels so nice and safe. The little touches/hugs here and there through the day are the best

  18. DoctorSubject897 Avatar

    His beard, his eyes, his lower lip, his shoulders, his height, his ass

  19. still_on_a_whisper Avatar

    Him respecting my views on social media usage. My sexual interest wanes heavily if I’m with someone who has a wandering eye.

  20. Stressyalaire Avatar

    Passion. There are memes of the boyfriend nerding out and the girlfriend being bored to death by it. But I love that. I love how he takes the time to explain me stuff. Is it overwhelming? Sure, but I think it’s cool that he lets me into his little world.

    Another is Focus. It could be during his hobby, something else. A man focused on something drives me crazy. And I will break his focus. I can’t help myself.

  21. FeelingWorker364 Avatar

    His entire body.

    He’s super insecure because he’s skinny.
    But he’s so tall and has a nice amount of muscle. He’s about 6,3 with fluffy brunette hair and a strong jawline with pretty brown eyes and cute freckles.

    He’s lean with nice abs and nice biceps. And his WAIST. Oh my goodness. It’s so SNATCHED. His stomach is so flat and it feels so nice just rubbing my face against it, it’s a feeling I can’t describe. And he has an incredible v line.

    Not to mention his super veiny hands and forearms.

    God just everything about him tbh.

  22. SpaceLexy Avatar

    His hands
    Arms
    Face
    Cheek dimples
    His personality is the best
    He’s very smart
    His hair
    Thighs
    Butt
    Back
    Feet (which is a big deal because I don’t like people’s feet lol)
    Legs
    His height
    His ability to have deep conversations
    The obvious area (penis, balls, all the goods😂)
    Okay basically everything is attractive.

  23. dahatdog Avatar

    I LOVE big, broad backs that are thick from all the muscles 🥰 when he cuddles me and I can see how wide he is while on top of me!!! Does anyone understand!! So hot