I vary my response based on the vibe of the guy asking. If I feel I can politely decline and he will be accepting of that then I just say ‘no, I’m not interested.’ But if I feel like that might be met with anger, abuse or further pestering then I say I have a boyfriend. Men like that will often be more respecting of a man (not present and sometimes imaginary) than they will of the woman in front of them.
No excuses. ”No”. Bye. If they have an issue with that they can send me an email. I don’t care. I am so fed up with this pushiness. But! The guy can leave his number and I’ll decide for myself. It’s the only way
Give them your number, when they text you, just say “hey, this isn’t (your name) she gives out my number when she isn’t interested in someone, she does this all the time. Sorry!”
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most of the time I just said “no thanks”. No is a complete sentence. You dont have to justify to anyone why you dont want to share your phone number.
I vary my response based on the vibe of the guy asking. If I feel I can politely decline and he will be accepting of that then I just say ‘no, I’m not interested.’ But if I feel like that might be met with anger, abuse or further pestering then I say I have a boyfriend. Men like that will often be more respecting of a man (not present and sometimes imaginary) than they will of the woman in front of them.
I have a bf
“Na I’m good”
No excuses. ”No”. Bye. If they have an issue with that they can send me an email. I don’t care. I am so fed up with this pushiness. But! The guy can leave his number and I’ll decide for myself. It’s the only way
“I don’t give my number out”
I don’t give my number out to people I don’t know. I’ll take theirs instead if I want to reach out.
Give them your number, when they text you, just say “hey, this isn’t (your name) she gives out my number when she isn’t interested in someone, she does this all the time. Sorry!”
“No im good thanks”
“No”
No thanks!
“I don’t have a phone” with my phone in my hand, or “I have a boyfriend” even though I, in fact, do not.
No, and a death stare. Few people survive the death stare.
“No thanks”
I just say no thank you. I am not making up stories to save somebody from having their ego bruised.