Not that subtle. He asked to come inside when he was dropping me off on our 3rd date. Caught me off guard and when I said sure but nothing is going to happen, he said “chill out.” Should have walked away then.
My loser boyfriend had a job but couldn’t manage his money, so every payday he’d give me the cash that would cover his car loan and ask me to stash it for him until it was due.
I cannot believe how desperate I was for affection.
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Not that subtle. He asked to come inside when he was dropping me off on our 3rd date. Caught me off guard and when I said sure but nothing is going to happen, he said “chill out.” Should have walked away then.
Alcohol.
My loser boyfriend had a job but couldn’t manage his money, so every payday he’d give me the cash that would cover his car loan and ask me to stash it for him until it was due.
I cannot believe how desperate I was for affection.
Pettiness
Pushing my boundaries, keeping track of the number of times I told him “no”
The general woe is me, the world is out to get me, plus the big age gap.
Reader, I could not fix him.
Kept saying he was “going to” do things.. like get a job
When men feel the need to point out that you are much smaller than them/tiny (it’s usually obvious, they don’t need to point it out)
Or if they feel the need to point out they could overpower you in any way
Every guy I have ever had do this has ended up being fucking awful and mean, physically assaultive, or controlling.
Most of the time it just shows their masculinity issues and for some reason they have all been insecure ( those that have done this)
His lack of control with alcohol. His personality changed depending what he consumes and sometimes his sober side was unknown for me.