Just leave him alone. Her choice to cheat is not his moral failing. If anything I’d wish him luck with her, because the mindset that makes the choice to cheat is not one that is going to provide any peace in the long run.
My life hasn’t gotten that far yet but if there’s another man involved in my relationship it’s probably not cheating then he’s probably also taking it from me.
Nothing , like you are either going to get yourself hurt, or catch a case because someone cheated on you. Dump her and find someone better. Like damn dude I know it hurts but don’t lose your mind .
It’s not responsibility to not fuck her. It’s her responsibility to not fuck him. He did nothing wrong and this is just you shifting responsibility to another person to avoid having to blame her
It’s normal to be mad and no doubt he’s a piece of shit since you said he knew. Better to know sooner than later. Let him keep her. That’s his problem now.
If that’s the case, leave them alone. Think about it this way. You know those fantasy stories where you lift a curse by transferring it to someone else? You just did that. You got rid of a cheater by giving her to someone else.
Tell him it’s ok and ask if he’d hear your sales pitch, you use that guilt to make a sale, gain a client, and network to more clients. You focus on legacy, not your dick.
Well cheating on you was more of her fault than his…Idk why people always blame on the other person and not the actual cheater. She cheated on you not him, break up with her and leave him alone, that’s what you should do.
The best advice is let it go. If you go beat his ass or worse, you end up with far more serious and permanent problems. As satisfying as the confrontation may be in the moment, in the long run you absolutely will regret it. If she doesn’t have enough respect for you to not cheat, then she’s not worth the trouble.
Depends if he knew you, was a close friend or a relative or did this as something directly against you. If she lied to him and he didn’t know, being mad at him is irrational.
Well, my uncles have chased and been chased with a baseball bat for the same reason, so that’s my example of the worse thing to happen. I’d just tell her to fvck off and inform his partner if he has one, and to run the other way if he sees me coming down the street. Then suck it up and move on, she gets no second chances and is condemned to damnatio memoriae.
Nothing. I don’t hate the other guy. I’ve been the other guy twice (and am not proud of it). It was my first girlfriend’s conscious choice to pursue him, and I’ve been better off without her for almost two decades.
He doesn’t owe me anything in chasing his own happiness, I’m just a stranger to him. She’s the one that didn’t mind betraying my feelings. So just give congratulations, wish him well with her and walk away.
Nothing, to do something to the guy would take responsibility off of her, likely he’s someone I’ve never met and will certainly never be any part of my life after so why expend the extra energy? The onus is on the one in the relationship to not stray and if they can’t handle that then they shouldn’t be in one
When my ex went to the guy she told me not to worry about (the classic) 2 Days after we broke up, i got angry. I felt betrayed, by her and by him. But after thinking about it for a while (and letting my emotions get the best of me a few times when we still spoke afterwards) he never should’ve taken blame for it. You know why not? Because he never knew about our relationship, he never knew that she was in a relationship.
You know when he knew? 2 Days before she broke up with me, she told me that she told him (which i still have my questions about, because in hindsight it looked more like she told me that to see my reaction) and when i told her that i felt relieved by that (because we’d been a couple for 5 months and it felt like she was hiding me from people) she broke up with me after 2 days of trying to talk things through.
The fact that she went to that online friend so quick after breaking up with me told me everything i needed to know. Love never meant one thing to her because if it DOES you don’t jump from one relationship to the next(she went from her ex to me in a week and from me to him in 48 hours)
You only do that because you don’t want to be alone and you don’t want to grow and let your feelings be there and actually do some self-reflecting and healing. And healing and processing is the most important part of a break-up. Cry, let emotions be there, but don’t be afraid to look at yourself in the mirror to see where YOU were wrong.
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Sue him for compensation, take the money and use it to start a new life.
Nothing. Break up with her. Move on. Find someone who wants to be with you.
Thank him for it – she’s his problem now.
Be glad they’re no longer my problem
Nothing. He can have her.
Was he aware of her relationship status?
Just leave him alone. Her choice to cheat is not his moral failing. If anything I’d wish him luck with her, because the mindset that makes the choice to cheat is not one that is going to provide any peace in the long run.
Nothing
My life hasn’t gotten that far yet but if there’s another man involved in my relationship it’s probably not cheating then he’s probably also taking it from me.
Congratulate him?
That’s karma’s concern. Handle YOUR affairs only.
Plow him to see what the appeal is
Depends on the context. Is he some rando I don’t know or was he my best friend? Did he know she was in a relationship or did she lie to us both?
Nothing , like you are either going to get yourself hurt, or catch a case because someone cheated on you. Dump her and find someone better. Like damn dude I know it hurts but don’t lose your mind .
It’s not responsibility to not fuck her. It’s her responsibility to not fuck him. He did nothing wrong and this is just you shifting responsibility to another person to avoid having to blame her
Nothing. The responsibility is all on her.
Tell him ‘good luck’ and gtfo.
It’s normal to be mad and no doubt he’s a piece of shit since you said he knew. Better to know sooner than later. Let him keep her. That’s his problem now.
Nothing I stay away from her. She can open her legs to anyone she wants. I don’t want a STI or a kid I could get tricked into raising.
Nothing. She already showed who she is and what she’ll do to you. Fuck her bro, there’s women everywhere.
Might be a bit drunk but i’m telling you the truth brother.
Are they still together?
If that’s the case, leave them alone. Think about it this way. You know those fantasy stories where you lift a curse by transferring it to someone else? You just did that. You got rid of a cheater by giving her to someone else.
I’d be pissed at him but she’s the problem. Move on and be glad you don’t have to deal with her anymore. Most likely she’ll cheat on him also.
Leave her to him – the best “punishment” possible.
Tell him it’s ok and ask if he’d hear your sales pitch, you use that guilt to make a sale, gain a client, and network to more clients. You focus on legacy, not your dick.
Well cheating on you was more of her fault than his…Idk why people always blame on the other person and not the actual cheater. She cheated on you not him, break up with her and leave him alone, that’s what you should do.
Sleep with him, too. Who ever lasts longer gets to keep her
Wish him luck ✌🏼
e: actually – thank them, then wish em luck – whilst playing ginuwine – what’s so different very loud in the background or while driving away.
Nothing. Move on from her, and forget about them both.
The best advice is let it go. If you go beat his ass or worse, you end up with far more serious and permanent problems. As satisfying as the confrontation may be in the moment, in the long run you absolutely will regret it. If she doesn’t have enough respect for you to not cheat, then she’s not worth the trouble.
Depends if he knew you, was a close friend or a relative or did this as something directly against you. If she lied to him and he didn’t know, being mad at him is irrational.
Nothing. Life is too short to dwell on either of them.
thank him and peace out
Why do anything? The person your partner cheats on you with doesn’t know you. They owe you no debt or loyalty. Be mad at the person who did.
Well, my uncles have chased and been chased with a baseball bat for the same reason, so that’s my example of the worse thing to happen. I’d just tell her to fvck off and inform his partner if he has one, and to run the other way if he sees me coming down the street. Then suck it up and move on, she gets no second chances and is condemned to damnatio memoriae.
Nothing? What are you even asking? Why would I want anything to do with that guy?
Nothing. I don’t hate the other guy. I’ve been the other guy twice (and am not proud of it). It was my first girlfriend’s conscious choice to pursue him, and I’ve been better off without her for almost two decades.
He doesn’t owe me anything in chasing his own happiness, I’m just a stranger to him. She’s the one that didn’t mind betraying my feelings. So just give congratulations, wish him well with her and walk away.
Why’re we asking silly questions?
this is such a immature mindset.
Real men don’t go around looking for conflict like that
watch and see because a woman who cheats WITH you will also cheat ON YOU
Rick and morty the claw and hoarder episode “aw, why can’t couples who start out cheating ever end up happy?”
“if you wait by the river long enough, the body of your enemy will float by” Lao Tzu
Nothing. She violated my trust. I had no covenant with him.
Did you know him prior?
If not- nothing.
He’s just a dude who got lured in by a hoe.
If you did know him- you don’t anymore.
Break all ties and let any mutual acquaintances know that you won’t be present in his company any longer.
I’d tell him “Have fun. She’s your problem now”.
I’d want to beat him but I don’t want to go to jail over some cheating trash.
He can marinate in his own mistakes while I live my best life without that stress.
Treat him to dinner for taking your problem away.
Nothing, to do something to the guy would take responsibility off of her, likely he’s someone I’ve never met and will certainly never be any part of my life after so why expend the extra energy? The onus is on the one in the relationship to not stray and if they can’t handle that then they shouldn’t be in one
I would hunt him down. And confront him. In a dark alleyway. Then thank him for saving me from a cheater. It is the only way.
When my ex went to the guy she told me not to worry about (the classic) 2 Days after we broke up, i got angry. I felt betrayed, by her and by him. But after thinking about it for a while (and letting my emotions get the best of me a few times when we still spoke afterwards) he never should’ve taken blame for it. You know why not? Because he never knew about our relationship, he never knew that she was in a relationship.
You know when he knew? 2 Days before she broke up with me, she told me that she told him (which i still have my questions about, because in hindsight it looked more like she told me that to see my reaction) and when i told her that i felt relieved by that (because we’d been a couple for 5 months and it felt like she was hiding me from people) she broke up with me after 2 days of trying to talk things through.
The fact that she went to that online friend so quick after breaking up with me told me everything i needed to know. Love never meant one thing to her because if it DOES you don’t jump from one relationship to the next(she went from her ex to me in a week and from me to him in 48 hours)
You only do that because you don’t want to be alone and you don’t want to grow and let your feelings be there and actually do some self-reflecting and healing. And healing and processing is the most important part of a break-up. Cry, let emotions be there, but don’t be afraid to look at yourself in the mirror to see where YOU were wrong.
I let him keep her, then laughed my ass off when she cheated on him.
A beat down is just kind of an obligation, so after that, I’d probably not care once that’s outta my system.