Do guys notice when we glance down there?

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I was sitting at lunch with my guy friend and he got up from the table. Before I knew it it’s like my eyes just happened to be in the spot of his crotch. I hurried and looked away. I’m not sure if he saw me and I hope he didn’t! Us girls can see when guys eyes shift towards our boobs and as much as they try not to look we can still see. I honestly just need to know at this point

Comments

  1. Semisemitic Avatar

    If we’re lucky 

  2. Runner_Pelotoner_415 Avatar

    I would only assume so…we definitely notice when they’re not looking up here

  3. OFFRIMITS Avatar

    We definitely notice. We just don’t bring it up.

  4. Due-Band-1860 Avatar

    Sometimes, what’s worse is when you catch a bloke stealing a snide peek.

  5. Exciting_Memory192 Avatar

    Eyes up here lady, 👀👆we’re not just pieces of meat 😂🍆

  6. Wings_of_Fire312 Avatar

    Nope. As far as I’m concerned, we’re too oblivious.

  7. D_Mon_Taurus Avatar

    I make eye contact when I talk to people. I can tell. Women are really good at timing and hiding the glances. Sometimes if it’s the guys turn to ramble, a person who just noticed and maybe hasn’t seen a VPL up close in the wild will get deer in headlights tunnel vision and you’ll see her kinda working out the math while you talk and won’t snap back to composure until you pause.

    I get it though. There are some things that catch hold of you and you can’t not take notice or try to file it for later. It’s def not sometime to embarrass sometime about. Women still don’t tend to leer as much as we do… Unless they very intentionally want you to see them looking.

  8. Squidd-O Avatar

    I’ve never noticed it personally.

    But then, maybe that says more about me than women…

    Nah, it’s just cuz I haven’t noticed

  9. Noimnotonacid Avatar

    Yes I notice especially when you’re not subtle

  10. Exact_Discipline8567 Avatar

    We notice and we like that.

  11. Academic_3895 Avatar

    You can look, just don’t touch.

  12. Cakeminator Avatar

    Yeeeep. Especially with sweatpants you’ll notice (and feel) the eyes wandering down there 😅 I’ll gladly take the compliment

  13. 0piate_taylor Avatar

    So you’re a crotch watcher huh?

  14. lilmagicfishy Avatar

    To be fair I didn’t notice for years until a girl I was dating would point out when women would “check it out”. Now I always notice 😅😂

  15. invalidConsciousness Avatar

    >Us girls can see when guys eyes shift towards our boobs and as much as they try not to look we can still see.

    You only notice when you notice. You don’t notice the cases where you didn’t notice.

    The longer the eyes remain on the area, the more likely you are to notice. The more obvious we’re trying to look away once we notice where we’re looking, the more likely it is you notice something.
    Same goes for us guys noticing your gaze.

    So this

    >I hurried and looked away.

    is what most likely gave you away. If you had just let your eyes continue to wander randomly, nobody would have been the wiser.

  16. boatmanmike Avatar

    Yes. We also notice when you look down and check to see if your own nipples are showing.

  17. AnimusInquirer Avatar

    I had no idea this was a thing. What exactly are you checking out?

  18. Papeenie Avatar

    Been crotch gazing for years. Gotta be quick. Never a stare, but more than a glance. It’s a very delicate dance between the two. Also, committing to memory the crotchal region is also important. Sometimes it’s like art. Gotta commit something good to memory for these orbs. And taking guesses: a righty, lefty, etc.

  19. Nick_Furious2370 Avatar

    I didn’t notice until I started wearing gym shorts regularly during lockdown and my neighbor mentioned that, “You’re packing ;)”

  20. Chimpy_Vision Avatar

    Idk about other guys but I usually notice.