Hey everyone. I never intended to make an update just because I’m pretty done with the situation. But I felt like this was some good information to share.
First things first:
I want to take a moment to thank all of you for all of the kind words. I wasn’t sure what posting on Reddit would be like but I’m glad I did. It really made me feel seen and to know I wasn’t the only one who thought this was all crazy.
Now for the update:
I haven’t spoken to him or the other girl since this all went down. I really have no plans to speak to either of them ever again. But tonight I was telling my best friend what happened (I knew she would be in town tonight and I wanted to tell her in person) and she wanted to see what the other girl looked like. So we looked her up on social media and she took down all of there pictures and changed her status to single. I will not be reaching out to her again but I am very glad that she got herself out of this situation. Everyone handles it differently and I harbor no hate for her. I’m glad we are both free. Now that I know they are broken up and she’s out, I finally feel like I have some real closure.
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Backup of the post’s body: Hey everyone. I never intended to make an update just because I’m pretty done with the situation. But I felt like this was some good information to share.
First things first:
I want to take a moment to thank all of you for all of the kind words. I wasn’t sure what posting on Reddit would be like but I’m glad I did. It really made me feel seen and to know I wasn’t the only one who thought this was all crazy.
Now for the update:
I haven’t spoken to him or the other girl since this all went down. I really have no plans to speak to either of them ever again. But tonight I was telling my best friend what happened (I knew she would be in town tonight and I wanted to tell her in person) and she wanted to see what the other girl looked like. So we looked her up on social media and she took down all of there pictures and changed her status to single. I will not be reaching out to her again but I am very glad that she got herself out of this situation. Everyone handles it differently and I harbor no hate for her. I’m glad we are both free. Now that I know they are broken up and she’s out, I finally feel like I have some real closure.
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I feel you may be getting a visit from your ex. I think she may have been the convenient ‘jenny on the spot’ piece.
I bet he has a job in your state, and he is moving.
Good luck.
Actually, OP, I’d hoped the skank and he remained together. They seemed like the perfect match made in hell.
Congratulations to you for moving on. In the meantime, get tested!
So she had blocked you on his phone and he had no idea you found out any of this. Girl you can write this up as a hallmark movie. You just stay strong when the worm shows up! What a hot mess. She definitely overplayed her hand!
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For when he shows up on your door.
Oh girlllll, she was definitely a side piece who got too bold. He was keeping her around for convenience but once she blocked you and changed his status, he freaked out and got rid of her. Be careful and aware as you can be, I suspect you will soon get a surprise visit from your ex.
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Sooooo… did the person other girl change BFs Facebook photos too?
glad y’all are both out. closure don’t always come clean but this feels like a solid end. keep goin, it only gets better from here.
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Wowzer. You dodged a bullet! Updateme