I Rented a Girlfriend in Japan (As a Woman & Foreigner) – AMA

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I’ve seen a lot of Youtube videos about renting girlfriends and boyfriends in Japan, but as a girl who likes girls, I was super curious if I could rent a girlfriend! Lucky for me, I had a Japanese friend who went on a deep dive into Japanese rental services and helped me find an AMAZING girlfriend! I honestly had such a wonderful time and think a lot more people could benefit from this service – so feel free to ask me about it!
(You can also watch the full date on my YT channel)

Comments

  1. throwawaylebgal Avatar

    What does the renting involve? I assume physical intimacy is not included -it’s just someone to hang around with?

  2. SweetSnake91974 Avatar

    What is the average price ? (asking for a friend of course)

  3. lurkeemclurker Avatar
  4. cheese_resurrection Avatar

    Favorite kind of cheese?

  5. dbastrid100 Avatar

    Do you intend on actually answering any of the questions?

  6. MyLittleDiscolite Avatar

    How far do these services go?

    Let’s say I had this really wild hair up my ass and I wanted to rent a girlfriend and then I rented a boyfriend at the same time and I wanted this full on sordid triangle where they both would fight over me passionately but then ~p l o t  t w i s t~ they fell in love with each other and I wanted to see them both become desperate in the throes of each other’s arms using intensity to try to forget about me and cursing my name the whole time but then they find out I am secretly dying so they become guilt ridden and do what they can for me then I hire another guy who looks like Stephen Lang to burst in and call them both pieces of shit and he rescues me. 

    Can they do that? Serious question 

  7. Fit-Welcome-8457 Avatar

    How casual did the date feel? What about the cuddle session?

  8. TheErstiesSpot Avatar

    Just to give more context, i’ve been on a mission to date women and experience intimacy with women, in all sorts of way. I really recommend this for girls like me who are bi-curious but haven’t had many chances to experience it yet!

  9. DespyHasNiceCans Avatar

    So did their affection towards you feel genuine or artificial?

  10. lilsebastian17 Avatar

    I’m curious if the girlfriend you hired was interested in women herself. Did you request a woman who was interested in women, or was the service you used specifically for queer women?

  11. Long_D_Shlong Avatar

    Is there banging involved?

  12. dbastrid100 Avatar

    Interesting.

    How did you find this service and how did you find this specific lady? Were you able to choose from a lineup?

  13. BarbedWire3 Avatar

    What her ad page look like? What photos, how many and what description? And what made u want to pick her over the other ads u saw?

  14. duchoww Avatar

    Are you allowed to smash?

  15. CalvinTheBold2 Avatar

    Ersties is underrated imo. Sorry, not a question. This just made me think I should’ve been a professional cuddler lol

  16. Awkward_Client_1908 Avatar

    Did you create this AMA just to promote your YT channel?

  17. No_Relative_6734 Avatar

    Did you scissor?

  18. Adryhelle Avatar

    I read from the comments that you quite liked her and enjoyed it. Aren’t you afraid to develop feelings for her? For me that would be my biggest fear. I mean idk how much time you spent with her, but I assume you can rebook the same person many times. Love at first sight or huge crushes can also happen. To me the possibility that it will never be able to go further kinda ruins it. But anyway how do you deal with that? Do you miss her after? What if you fall in love?

  19. money_me_please Avatar

    Is this an ad for your porn website ersties?

  20. jhon_snowboard Avatar

    Can I hire one with my gf?? Like a three way fun date. That would be very fun.

  21. Agitated-Appeal-7386 Avatar

    Nah that’s just sad. Just get a real one.

  22. Repulsive_Dog1067 Avatar

    This should be in the passportbro sub.

    Filming yourself when picking up escorts is next level even for that gang

  23. kingthunderflash Avatar

    How much money was it?

  24. Stinger22024 Avatar

    Which do you like better? Chicken or John Wick movies

  25. RickVince Avatar

    Okay but…why?

  26. Obvious_Amount8772 Avatar

    Elaborate on how more people could benefit from this service ?

  27. GhoulArtist Avatar

    I think these services are a really great tool that has serious therapeutic benefits. Esp for people that feel tortured or frustrated by loneliness.

    I think it could prevent a lot of bad things. Imagine if incel mass shooters had access to this. I could legitimately see it helping defuse the situation and help them integrate back into society and positive mental health.

    And honestly, we have an epidemic of lonely people right now. (At least from my experience in the states). I have a LOT of middle aged friends who openly tell me that they are lonely, that could really benefit from this.

    One of my friends has Asperger’s , and he can not land a date to save his life. Poor guy just always comes off awkward (and creepy if you don’t know him). He’s harmless and frankly a great person. but man, that dude could really use something like this to boost his confidence.

  28. chechnya23 Avatar

    Do you have a good relationship with your father?

  29. MrPoppedYoXanz Avatar

    Did they speak English?

  30. Maldib Avatar

    You simply booked a sex worker for a “date course”. No shit she was super friendly and accommodating. This is not wacky Japan at all.

  31. Similar_Ad5293 Avatar

    Dystopian. Must be so draining for the rented lady.

  32. trthaw2 Avatar

    Why has nobody asked this yet?

    Do you speak Japanese? Did she speak English? How did you communicate?

  33. Naive-Treacle2052 Avatar

    Did it include…..everything?

  34. whateveratthispoint_ Avatar

    This is really interesting, and sweet. It’s nice to know you had a lovely experience. Any grief when it was over or was it like regular end-of-vacation blues?

    Edit: thank you! Great AMAs are priceless. I love reading about things I will never experience for one reason or another.

  35. Tranxio Avatar

    Any bed activity (besides cuddling) allowed?

  36. inphinities Avatar

    What did you discuss with her?

  37. Seattlecat1 Avatar

    What ?? I’m going to Japan soon how could I do this as well. Sounds fun and interesting.

  38. tree_or_up Avatar

    This honestly sounds like a great way to learn a little more about navigating Japan. I wouldn’t so much want it to be a date but more like a “rent a friend who will show you around and not (obviously) judge you”. I’ve only been to Japan once but if I’d had the chance for something like this I think I might have felt a little more comfortable and explored a bit more – as well as had some less awkward interactions because I didn’t know what I was doing and probably came across as a clueless westerner stumbling around feeling lost. Kind of like a personal etiquette coach and guide.

    Curious if they have men who go on “dates” with other men

  39. Kim_Franeckif Avatar

    How much did it cost and is it worth it to you?

  40. evonebo Avatar

    How is this any different than an escort in the west?

  41. Shades228 Avatar

    Using AMA as an ad platform for youtube.

  42. Crafty-Difficulty244 Avatar

    Plleeeeaaseee, can you play with your rented partner fighting in bed? Why no one asked that?

  43. Real-Shower-7912 Avatar
  44. Halfmoonhero Avatar

    Did they have sex with you or was it more like just a companion?