20f have been sleeping with this guy 20M for a month now. He’s so much fun to hang out with but he genuinely the guy version of me I’m so many different ways. I’m just asking is it normal for your fwb to hang around for hours and talk about anything and everything without liking you at least a little. We hang out for hours and he’s spent the night after a recent hangout. However he has admitting to sleeping with other girls so I’ve been feeling a little weird about it. Does he enjoy spending time with me as well as fucking or is he just playing the long game because he knows we will have sex.
Does my situation like me slightly or does he not gaf
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Tell him how you feel. That’s the only way to tell.
Did you set boundaries of being exclusive with him? Have you ever asked him not to sleep with other people?
Please think about how to sit him down and tell him this bothers you. It sounds like you want more commitment. Communicating this is the only way you’ll be able to solve anything. Hope it works out for you!
If he likes you he won’t fuck other Girls.
Fwb are just that: not exclusive. He certainly likes you, but he’s f*cking other girls as well, which means he will never go exclusive with you: why would he, since he can have you and the others as well?
If you want the relationship to change, talk to him and stop sleeping with him until you two get together. You can be friends without the benefits.
In my opinion a FWB isn’t only just a FWB with you, but also with others.
If he didn’t like you then he wouldn’t be sleeping with you, but you both need to have a talk about boundaries etc.
You don’t want to get hurt, so better to talk about.
Cut him off immediately. If he liked you he wouldn’t do that, plus that’s nasty. Diseases spreading around
You clearly like him and maybe he likes you too but he’s getting to put his dick into multiple women and that means he doesn’t really respect you. He will be just as charming and likeable to the other girls he is sleeping with so be careful not to get caught up thinking you have something special. Girls and boys think very differently and I would be very cautious about starting a proper relationship with someone who is happy to sleep with multiple people at the same time.