(i’m 19f he’s 19m) his communication has been off since a week ago. we had a talk today and he told me he doesn’t have a lot of motivation and hasn’t been feeling good after he said that our conversations aren’t as exciting anymore and i told him i didnt feel this way. we finished talking and i don’t know when we will talk again but what do i do?
i’m scared my bf wants to break up.
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If he wants to break up, let him. A relationship is 2 ways. And if 1 isn’t into it, it’s not going to work
Just remind him your there for him and willing to do anything to support him. Show him lots of extra love and affection. If he doesnt reciprocate back he might just need some space. Go buy him his favorite things.
It sounds like he’s going through something, and it might not be about you at all. Give him a bit of space, but don’t forget, you deserve someone who chooses you clearly, not confusingly
‘Not feeling good’ + ‘convos aren’t exciting’ = him problem, not you problem. Keep your crown straight, queen.
You ditch him and you call me!
There isn’t anything you can do, other than respect his decision and hold your head high. Grieve in private, don’t beg him to stay; it never works.
If he doesn’t break up with you, I suggest you break up with him. You’re wasting your time with this guy.
Sounds like he’s having a tough time, I suggest you reach out to him, go over to his place if he doesn’t wanna talk over the phone and talk to him about what’s bothering him. There’s also a possibility that there may be no reason at all as is common in these cases, could be a sign of depression. He might try to push you away but that’s just cuz he doesn’t wanna talk about it (I know cuz I’ve been through it), so you should help him in the best way you can as he’d probably do the same for you