I like to be mean during sex

r/

It starts with teasing but then straight up bullying.

I can’t really feel horny enough without doing it.

I also feel bad after because I was bullied growing up too, but what I do is little more like twisted.

I’m not physically abusive but fake emotional abuse I guess is what you can call it. Sometimes I don’t mind the roles being reversed but it’s very motivated by the original idea. Like I’ll hear a good insult and save it for later when it’s my turn.

I don’t really wanna say more because I don’t wanna end up the in psych ward lol but idk why I can’t really get off without it. That part is more concerning.

Comments

  1. onlinemadison Avatar

    Unfortunately you’re just going to have to find someone who is also into it. It can be a slippery slope for someone to get their feelings really hurt so you have to have like really clear boundaries with someone.

  2. CimmerianScum Avatar

    Sadism-emotional sadism, specifically. Plenty of girls have humiliation kinks, just find them.

  3. JustMath5260 Avatar

    Do backhand insults and try not to delve into sensitive topics

  4. Ok_Koala_9296 Avatar

    The sub ur looking for is r/ antikink, they give actual advice and insight into this stuff besides just “blindly accept what ur into sexually and ignore if u feel concerned”