I honestly would rather rub a girl while she runs me and not even have sex at all, is it me am I odd or does anyone else feel this way?
I honestly would rather rub a girl while she runs me and not even have sex at all, is it me am I odd or does anyone else feel this way?
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Yes, this feeling is because you are very lonely and just prefer hugs and small touches. It’s a response to a lonely feeling or because you didn’t get any affection when you were little. Sex is still fun though!
It’s a trauma response. You’re not odd. You need trust in a relationship before you can take it any further.
As a girl, this feels passionate and hot for some time. But I would advice you to look into yourself and evaluate if you can sort of “fix” that, try and feel that with sex, because most of women would start feeling needy at some point.
If not, you could just look for someone with the same preference, but it might be difficult to find
It’s outside of the norm. Touching and being touched is great but many people would become frustrated if that’s all their partner wanted to do.
You may want to examine why you feel this way about sex. Could be some kind of trauma. Or you could be asexual or graysexual.
It’s not odd. Humans of all ages really have a need for physical affection. Sex is just the neurotic expression of this (IN MOST EVERY CASE).