If that is what you are into then it’s a good idea to seek out ppl specifically into that also. Maybe join fetlife to have the opportunity to discuss with ppl in more detail about what you do and don’t like, even if you don’t find a date there it can open your perspective. (NB lots of odd guys on there so best seek friendship rather than dates there preferably).
If you want to be forced then you need to learn about CNC and not just try to goad a guy into doing that to you.
That’s a discussion for a much later date. If some said to me “I’d like to get to know you better but I like sex like “whatever it is” I would run, not walk, immediately. Not necessarily because of what they like, but because that’s something I really don’t need to know yet.
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If that is what you are into then it’s a good idea to seek out ppl specifically into that also. Maybe join fetlife to have the opportunity to discuss with ppl in more detail about what you do and don’t like, even if you don’t find a date there it can open your perspective. (NB lots of odd guys on there so best seek friendship rather than dates there preferably).
If you want to be forced then you need to learn about CNC and not just try to goad a guy into doing that to you.
Try r/sexadvice
Ok, well thats enough reddit for me today.
Make some popcorn, Marge!
That’s a discussion for a much later date. If some said to me “I’d like to get to know you better but I like sex like “whatever it is” I would run, not walk, immediately. Not necessarily because of what they like, but because that’s something I really don’t need to know yet.