only had 1 bf but he cheated 7 times before i found out 🥱 (we dated for 7 months when i found out) i still stayed bc i was stupid and most of them were emotional cheating, but he reconnected with one of them after we broke up lmao WHILE I WAS TRYING TO FIX THINGS BETWEEN US
You know how you can prevent getting cheated on? Just stop seeking a worldly relationship and start seeking a relationship with Jesus. Your life will change forever.
Once, when I was new to dating. I dumped him that second. We stayed friends. Lost touch. Occasionally say hi on SM. It was a stupid kid thing and he grew up to be a good husband and father to his family.
Once, never have been in a committed relationship since then. Been 6 years. Not bc I am not over the man or the relationship—it’s just every man that has followed has only been into hooking up. So now, I just keep to myself. Much better this way.
3 out of 5 relationships 😒 and I had an idea each time.. caught 1 outright, but didn’t learn any lessons..
Can’t bring myself to date now, no trust left.
Both sides cheat, obviously, and I have heard that both sides cheat about the same.
A bit of advice, if you date the hot Chads who run thru girls, treat them terribly count on getting cheated on. For women the age can be very young to empty nesters, the 40 something or late 30’s married woman who gives up on a good man to try to trade up by divorcing them or just having a affair it usually ends up with disaster, a broken man and, later, a woman filled with regret, many in this age range claim that they got bored with their husbands and usually ended up miserable after the chad or lower quality man than the boyfriend or husband has run through them.
I curious why OP didn’t ask about the women but women may have the edge now with the boss babes soccer moms grabbing a young sometimes teenage kids from the neighborhood. One guy had his toilet all stopped up, plumber came out and found a ton of condoms clogging up septic tank, he installed cameras it was a 18 year old kid the neighborhood.
No major instances until ONE relationship that was nothing but…. combined with the gaslighting and I am now headed into ptsd treatment…
Do not ignore red flags or your gut
Two of them were people I considered extremely close friends before we got into a relationship and I knew them for years.
The other three I was technically The other woman and as soon as I found out I would cut all contacts and informed the women involved. I formed friendships with two of those women
One out of 4 relationships. It was just “pics” as far as I know but he was trash anyways. Almost threw his ps4 off my balcony 🥲 (he was a freeloading POS, I don’t condone property damage, I didn’t actually do it I was just pissed)
Was with whom I thought was the most perfect guy for 9 years. Had a baby. He left me two days ago for his mistress of 3 years and confessed to sleeping with 8 different women during our relationship. I’m only 24 but I feel like my world has ended.
2 out of 4 long term relationships. Greats odds (/s)! But it’s taught me that cheaters work on a shitty spectrum – the first time it happened to me was an emotional/physical affair with a close friend of mine, which imo was wayyyyy worse to deal with than the recent drunken one night stand my ex had.
Been physically cheated on by one guy (that I know of) and emotionally cheated on by two (once again, that I know of). I’ve had 6 boyfriends spanning from 7 months to 4 years.
No idea how many times he’d done it but I had to confront my ex to get him to admit that something was going on and he had been cheating behind my back for 3 months. Waited 3 years before dating again and haven’t been cheated on since.
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2 out of 4 relationships
once or twice, that I know of
Quit crying. It’s the new normal
4 out of 5 relationships.. oh.
Once….but I’ve also dated once
I dont know… once?
2-3 as far as I know
Atleast twice
Relationship #1 – yes
Relationship #2 – probably but not sure
Relationship #3 – yes
Relationship #4 – yes
Relationship #5 – no
Relationship #6 – no
Only once in my youth, then i got a whole lot better at weeding out the trash..
Neva!
The comments on this post jfc 😭😭
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2 that I know of for sure but I was suspicious of one.
Why has everyone been cheated on
none, as far as I know
only had 1 bf but he cheated 7 times before i found out 🥱 (we dated for 7 months when i found out) i still stayed bc i was stupid and most of them were emotional cheating, but he reconnected with one of them after we broke up lmao WHILE I WAS TRYING TO FIX THINGS BETWEEN US
You know how you can prevent getting cheated on? Just stop seeking a worldly relationship and start seeking a relationship with Jesus. Your life will change forever.
3 out of 5 serious relationships
Once, when I was new to dating. I dumped him that second. We stayed friends. Lost touch. Occasionally say hi on SM. It was a stupid kid thing and he grew up to be a good husband and father to his family.
Never. Been together 32yrs. We’re completely honest with each other and have no secrets.
Hey men!!!!
Just curious how many times men have been cheated on!?!
(Being equal n all. 🙂 )
Once
All my previous relationships 🥲 5 times
Once, never have been in a committed relationship since then. Been 6 years. Not bc I am not over the man or the relationship—it’s just every man that has followed has only been into hooking up. So now, I just keep to myself. Much better this way.
That I know once lol but you never know with these men
I’ll never know the actual number of times they cheated, but it was 2 guys that did it.
Teen bf cheated but now no
4 different ppl have cheated I don’t know how many times
Only one guy cheated on me, and I trusted him completely. My husband of 25 years. He divorced me to marry her. I wish I lived in an alimony state.
3 out of 5 relationships 😒 and I had an idea each time.. caught 1 outright, but didn’t learn any lessons..
Can’t bring myself to date now, no trust left.
Only once (that I know about lol)
Both sides cheat, obviously, and I have heard that both sides cheat about the same.
A bit of advice, if you date the hot Chads who run thru girls, treat them terribly count on getting cheated on. For women the age can be very young to empty nesters, the 40 something or late 30’s married woman who gives up on a good man to try to trade up by divorcing them or just having a affair it usually ends up with disaster, a broken man and, later, a woman filled with regret, many in this age range claim that they got bored with their husbands and usually ended up miserable after the chad or lower quality man than the boyfriend or husband has run through them.
I curious why OP didn’t ask about the women but women may have the edge now with the boss babes soccer moms grabbing a young sometimes teenage kids from the neighborhood. One guy had his toilet all stopped up, plumber came out and found a ton of condoms clogging up septic tank, he installed cameras it was a 18 year old kid the neighborhood.
Frankly I have no idea. The ex got around. I’m sure there were more than I found evidence of.
4 relationships, 2 long term living together, never been cheated on. (As far as I know)
I guess I’m very lucky.
It’s days like this I’m happy to be celibate lol
3 out of 3 relationships 🙂 taking a break from dating probably forever
Never cause they actually like me
Twice with hs sweetheart
Once that I know of, but if he cheated more than once I am not sure
No major instances until ONE relationship that was nothing but…. combined with the gaslighting and I am now headed into ptsd treatment…
Do not ignore red flags or your gut
Never that I know of besides ex husband sexting men
The other three I was technically The other woman and as soon as I found out I would cut all contacts and informed the women involved. I formed friendships with two of those women
Trash ends up with trash. Non trash figure out how to avoid trash, or get out before anything real happens.
None as far as I know.
Never, thankfully. My relationships ended for other reasons.
I’ve only had two serious relationships in my life.
My first husband cheated on me at least six times – that I know about – in the 6 years we were married.
I’ve been married to my 2nd husband for 25 years and I honestly don’t believe he has ever cheated on me.
One out of 4 relationships. It was just “pics” as far as I know but he was trash anyways. Almost threw his ps4 off my balcony 🥲 (he was a freeloading POS, I don’t condone property damage, I didn’t actually do it I was just pissed)
Once. That I’m aware of.
Zero ☺️
Was with whom I thought was the most perfect guy for 9 years. Had a baby. He left me two days ago for his mistress of 3 years and confessed to sleeping with 8 different women during our relationship. I’m only 24 but I feel like my world has ended.
I’m a man, and I’ve never cheated on anyone, although I’ve dated dozens of women in my life (I’m in my 50’s).
I have been cheated on by several women that I know of. I never told them I knew. I just broke up with them. I didn’t want to hear them lie.
Twice out of five relationships
2 out of 4 long term relationships. Greats odds (/s)! But it’s taught me that cheaters work on a shitty spectrum – the first time it happened to me was an emotional/physical affair with a close friend of mine, which imo was wayyyyy worse to deal with than the recent drunken one night stand my ex had.
Male here, never had a girlfriend not cheat on me on my birthday
3 times to my knowledge
Once. Got better at always trusting my gut and cutting people off.
If I say a lot: I’ll be told that I’m a slut for having been with a specific amount of men
If I say never: I’ll be told that I’m a virgin looking for approval
At least that’s what I feel, that’s why I would feel ashamed of answering this question. I can just say that more than once
Been physically cheated on by one guy (that I know of) and emotionally cheated on by two (once again, that I know of). I’ve had 6 boyfriends spanning from 7 months to 4 years.
No idea how many times he’d done it but I had to confront my ex to get him to admit that something was going on and he had been cheating behind my back for 3 months. Waited 3 years before dating again and haven’t been cheated on since.
Relationships:
1: emotionally.
2: all the time. Found out after the fact.
3: yes.
4: hopefully not! I think this one’s different and I hope I’m right
One time I’m suspect of but can’t prove and the other time was an emotional affair that may have turned physical but so far it didn’t.
Out of my 2 relationships total, I have only been cheat on 1, it was my first relationship too
None..suspicious of 1 though but none. But maybe I didn’t know you know? Lol (I’ve had like 7 serious relationships including a marriage)
I have once by a woman , once by my boyfriend and my husband well he rode a line when we got together.
2 out of my 6 long term relationships I got cheated on