Ladies!! How many times have you been cheated on?

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I’m just curious how many times have women been cheated on!?!

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  1. KindExpression9186 Avatar

    2 out of 4 relationships

  2. Any_March_9765 Avatar

    once or twice, that I know of

  3. lou-sassle71 Avatar

    Quit crying. It’s the new normal

  4. peachteagirl33 Avatar

    4 out of 5 relationships.. oh.

  5. No_Blackberry_6286 Avatar

    Once….but I’ve also dated once

  6. aurora_ethereallight Avatar

    I dont know… once?

  7. SweetVibe_69 Avatar

    2-3 as far as I know

  8. inearlygraves Avatar

    Atleast twice

  9. Green-Thanks1369 Avatar

    Relationship #1 – yes

    Relationship #2 – probably but not sure 

    Relationship #3 – yes

    Relationship #4 – yes

    Relationship #5 – no

    Relationship #6 – no

  10. Omakaselovewine Avatar

    Only once in my youth, then i got a whole lot better at weeding out the trash..

  11. Foreign_Whereas_2542 Avatar

    The comments on this post jfc 😭😭

  12. Fearless-Crab-Pilot Avatar

    2 that I know of for sure but I was suspicious of one.

  13. Truthful-strawberry7 Avatar

    Why has everyone been cheated on

  14. Ok-Concentrate7740 Avatar

    none, as far as I know

  15. Distinct_Wrap9002 Avatar

    only had 1 bf but he cheated 7 times before i found out 🥱 (we dated for 7 months when i found out) i still stayed bc i was stupid and most of them were emotional cheating, but he reconnected with one of them after we broke up lmao WHILE I WAS TRYING TO FIX THINGS BETWEEN US

  16. Affectionate_Low9348 Avatar

    You know how you can prevent getting cheated on? Just stop seeking a worldly relationship and start seeking a relationship with Jesus. Your life will change forever.

  17. twiglet27 Avatar

    3 out of 5 serious relationships

  18. Alycion Avatar

    Once, when I was new to dating. I dumped him that second. We stayed friends. Lost touch. Occasionally say hi on SM. It was a stupid kid thing and he grew up to be a good husband and father to his family.

  19. OnehappyOwl44 Avatar

    Never. Been together 32yrs. We’re completely honest with each other and have no secrets.

  20. _shiftah_ Avatar

    Hey men!!!!

    Just curious how many times men have been cheated on!?!

    (Being equal n all. 🙂 )

  21. CoconutSugarMatcha Avatar

    All my previous relationships 🥲 5 times

  22. biscuitsandgravy111 Avatar

    Once, never have been in a committed relationship since then. Been 6 years. Not bc I am not over the man or the relationship—it’s just every man that has followed has only been into hooking up. So now, I just keep to myself. Much better this way.

  23. sunfloweratlas Avatar

    That I know once lol but you never know with these men

  24. Amyava510 Avatar

    I’ll never know the actual number of times they cheated, but it was 2 guys that did it.

  25. Leather-Path1348 Avatar

    Teen bf cheated but now no

  26. nadiaco Avatar

    4 different ppl have cheated I don’t know how many times

  27. Adventurous-Cook5717 Avatar

    Only one guy cheated on me, and I trusted him completely. My husband of 25 years. He divorced me to marry her. I wish I lived in an alimony state.

  28. InternationalFold467 Avatar

    3 out of 5 relationships 😒 and I had an idea each time.. caught 1 outright, but didn’t learn any lessons..
    Can’t bring myself to date now, no trust left.

  29. Kaitieruns Avatar

    Only once (that I know about lol)

  30. PaymentNecessary1667 Avatar

    Both sides cheat, obviously, and I have heard that both sides cheat about the same.

    A bit of advice, if you date the hot Chads who run thru girls, treat them terribly count on getting cheated on. For women the age can be very young to empty nesters, the 40 something or late 30’s married woman who gives up on a good man to try to trade up by divorcing them or just having a affair it usually ends up with disaster, a broken man and, later, a woman filled with regret, many in this age range claim that they got bored with their husbands and usually ended up miserable after the chad or lower quality man than the boyfriend or husband has run through them.

    I curious why OP didn’t ask about the women but women may have the edge now with the boss babes soccer moms grabbing a young sometimes teenage kids from the neighborhood. One guy had his toilet all stopped up, plumber came out and found a ton of condoms clogging up septic tank, he installed cameras it was a 18 year old kid the neighborhood.

  31. Still_Waters-Run Avatar

    Frankly I have no idea. The ex got around. I’m sure there were more than I found evidence of.

  32. Olives_And_Cheese Avatar

    4 relationships, 2 long term living together, never been cheated on. (As far as I know)

    I guess I’m very lucky.

  33. TakenUsername120184 Avatar

    It’s days like this I’m happy to be celibate lol

  34. Savings_Tree_3184 Avatar

    3 out of 3 relationships 🙂 taking a break from dating probably forever

  35. FatBussyFemboys Avatar

    Never cause they actually like me

  36. Wise-Description2641 Avatar

    Twice with hs sweetheart

  37. Kab00dl3z Avatar

    Once that I know of, but if he cheated more than once I am not sure

  38. Damsel_in_duress Avatar

    No major instances until ONE relationship that was nothing but…. combined with the gaslighting and I am now headed into ptsd treatment…
    Do not ignore red flags or your gut

  39. Lost_Bad3543 Avatar

    Never that I know of besides ex husband sexting men

  40. HorizonHunter1982 Avatar
    1. Two of them were people I considered extremely close friends before we got into a relationship and I knew them for years.

    The other three I was technically The other woman and as soon as I found out I would cut all contacts and informed the women involved. I formed friendships with two of those women

  41. Bespoke_Potato Avatar

    Trash ends up with trash. Non trash figure out how to avoid trash, or get out before anything real happens.

  42. camelz4 Avatar

    None as far as I know.

  43. CantoErgoSum Avatar

    Never, thankfully. My relationships ended for other reasons.

  44. LaLechuzaVerde Avatar

    I’ve only had two serious relationships in my life.

    My first husband cheated on me at least six times – that I know about – in the 6 years we were married.

    I’ve been married to my 2nd husband for 25 years and I honestly don’t believe he has ever cheated on me.

  45. unbreakablewildone Avatar

    One out of 4 relationships. It was just “pics” as far as I know but he was trash anyways. Almost threw his ps4 off my balcony 🥲 (he was a freeloading POS, I don’t condone property damage, I didn’t actually do it I was just pissed)

  46. Ninja-Panda86 Avatar

    Once. That I’m aware of.

  47. Lk1220418 Avatar

    Zero ☺️

  48. Plenty_Psychology_73 Avatar

    Was with whom I thought was the most perfect guy for 9 years. Had a baby. He left me two days ago for his mistress of 3 years and confessed to sleeping with 8 different women during our relationship. I’m only 24 but I feel like my world has ended.

  49. BitZealousideal9016 Avatar

    I’m a man, and I’ve never cheated on anyone, although I’ve dated dozens of women in my life (I’m in my 50’s).

    I have been cheated on by several women that I know of. I never told them I knew. I just broke up with them. I didn’t want to hear them lie.

  50. No_Investment3205 Avatar

    Twice out of five relationships

  51. glizzyqueen666 Avatar

    2 out of 4 long term relationships. Greats odds (/s)! But it’s taught me that cheaters work on a shitty spectrum – the first time it happened to me was an emotional/physical affair with a close friend of mine, which imo was wayyyyy worse to deal with than the recent drunken one night stand my ex had.

  52. DushiOhm Avatar

    Male here, never had a girlfriend not cheat on me on my birthday

  53. Weird_Nose_3466 Avatar

    3 times to my knowledge

  54. Briaboo2008 Avatar

    Once. Got better at always trusting my gut and cutting people off.

  55. CloudyRiaa Avatar

    If I say a lot: I’ll be told that I’m a slut for having been with a specific amount of men

    If I say never: I’ll be told that I’m a virgin looking for approval

    At least that’s what I feel, that’s why I would feel ashamed of answering this question. I can just say that more than once

  56. cica4 Avatar

    Been physically cheated on by one guy (that I know of) and emotionally cheated on by two (once again, that I know of). I’ve had 6 boyfriends spanning from 7 months to 4 years.

  57. anonymous-salticid Avatar

    No idea how many times he’d done it but I had to confront my ex to get him to admit that something was going on and he had been cheating behind my back for 3 months. Waited 3 years before dating again and haven’t been cheated on since.

  58. Curedbyfiction Avatar

    Relationships:
    1: emotionally.
    2: all the time. Found out after the fact.
    3: yes.
    4: hopefully not! I think this one’s different and I hope I’m right

  59. elvensnowfae Avatar

    One time I’m suspect of but can’t prove and the other time was an emotional affair that may have turned physical but so far it didn’t.

  60. Cris_x Avatar

    Out of my 2 relationships total, I have only been cheat on 1, it was my first relationship too

  61. lostnightmare07 Avatar

    None..suspicious of 1 though but none. But maybe I didn’t know you know? Lol (I’ve had like 7 serious relationships including a marriage)

  62. JainaW Avatar

    I have once by a woman , once by my boyfriend and my husband well he rode a line when we got together.

  63. ChefChefBubbaBill Avatar

    2 out of my 6 long term relationships I got cheated on