Am I the only one who’s sexually active and yet still disgusted by the whole visuals of penises? I’m a heterosexual woman in a loving relationship. I like sex and get horny and everything, but seeing the penis itself… I’m just disgusted. I hate that it is this way but I can’t help it.
Can anyone else relate? Have you found any explanation for yourself? I’m trying to figure out whether it’s got something to do with my ptsd (sexual violence) or whether it’s rather common…
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Oh they’re ugly. But then again I’m not hetero so….
I’m attracted to both men and women and find all genitals visually repulsive. Mind you, I am also a confusing mix of trauma/functionally ace so I don’t know that my data will be helpful to you.
They are weird looking for sure.
Some are very pretty to me, some are hideous 🤷♀️
I’m attracted to all genders but penises really are just gross looking.
“I’m straight, so I’m attracted to men, but I don’t find men attractive” — Lesie Liao (the first few seconds here)
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I’ve always struggled with this myself. And, no. I don’t typically find penises attractive at all.
I think they look fancy. I think ours look tidy. No, I don’t know why I have either impressions. Now I’m going to spend the day wondering about it.
Some are pretty, some are not. It’s not a relevant point of discussion either way.
No, and it amuses me no end that men think they’re so magnificent.
I don’t think any genitals are particularly aesthetically pleasing, lol. I think natural penises definitely look better than circumcised ones, but I wouldn’t say I find any of them attractive.
No, I do not find them attractive. They are all weird looking. Fun to handle, yes, but nothing I’m going out of my way to look at.
I’m attracted to men but i wouldnt say i find penises visually pleasing.
In general? No. My husband’s? Yes.
Penis alone is not attractive, penis with body yes.
Well, i’ve only once seen a penis I found visually pleasant to look at 😂
I don’t think have any feelings either way. I’m attracted to both men and women and genitals are just part of the package. I don’t see one or the other and get horny, it’s the whole person and their personality that turns me on.
I’m certainly not disgusted by penises.
I’m a mostly straight guy and I find some penises attractive. So maybe the theory that men in general think they look good holds up 🤣
Not attractive.
I need people to learn how to correctly use aethethic
Nope, not alone. Which is why I find the idea of unsolicited dick pics so ridiculous – why are you sending women a pic of the least attractive part of you?
How I generally feel about penises depends on how I feel about the person they’re attached to.
But some I feel are more aesthetically appealing than others.
They’re funny looking. Not that ours is that attractive either lol
If a man told me he found vaginas repulsive to look at, I would assume he was gay or closeted.
Both. I personally get very turned on by them, and also admire their shape.
Its cute but its not “estetic” as such
I’ve been rather lucky with the men I’ve been with. Never been with any particularly small ones. Always had decent length and girth. Been with circumcised and none. They’re all a little different. But some have been down right glorious to behold !!! Hahaha
I have always found them comical and funny looking. Men do NOT like it when you laugh at theirs tho
When I’m turned on yeah otherwise I usually just feel meh about it like it’s any other body part
I find random unwanted penises gross.
I find penises I want to see very nice.
I have a friend with more adventurous tastes that I do, and she uses dildos as decorations in her bedroom.
Most of them are only vagualy penis shaped, and a few are tentacles.
They have nice colours and a visually very interesting so I would caterhorise them as bith aesthetic and attractive, but I have zero interest in putting anything like that near my vagina.
The penis I am most acquainted with is nothing to write home about in the looks department, but it is warm, friendly, and fun to play with. It also comes attached to the man I love with helps.
No… By themselves, they don’t mean much or particularly have an Aesthetic ✨ They are just genitals??? I feel the same about vaginas too. Even boobs, if you think about them too hard, are just mounds of flesh.
It’s why unsolicited dick pics are just repulsive to most people. I’m never going to see a random person’s penis and be attracted to it or the owner because it means nothing to me.
To me this is like asking if I find noses attractive. I guess a nose can slightly be more attractive than another, but it really depends on how it fits with the rest of the face.
I think this is why in my experience I’ve seen most women supporting full body pictures as opposed to close-ups.
The Disney Prince dick art was kind of pretty. Hahah for the curious
I think intact penises are pretty but ones that have beedln surgically altered, much less so.
I’m a medical illustrator so yes, same goes for the vulva. Honestly our entire meat sack and all its anatomical variances are so intricate and cool.