Advice Needed for Wedding Guest Dresses

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Hi THT!

I’m a weekly listener and after hearing so many AITAH and AIO wedding stories; I’m being extra cautious lol

I don’t want to be writing here in a few months asking if AITAH for wearing these dresses to some summer weddings. So please let me know if you think any of these dresses are an absolute NO. Both are outdoor summer weddings on farms and no dress code was provided.

Normally I wouldn’t buy anything with a white background, but myself and my friends think these two blue/white floral dresses look mostly blue with a tiny bit of white. What do you think??

I think the pink and green dresses are also nice but I’m worried they look too casual, but maybe that’s fine for the wedding setting on a farm?

Since I ordered everything online, and haven’t decided to keep any yet; I haven’t asked the brides yet for their approval. I don’t want to bug them if none of these dresses fit when they arrive.

Thanks in advance for any feedback:)

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  1. AutoModerator Avatar

    Backup of the post’s body: Hi THT!

    I’m a weekly listener and after hearing so many AITAH and AIO wedding stories; I’m being extra cautious lol

    I don’t want to be writing here in a few months asking if AITAH for wearing these dresses to some summer weddings. So please let me know if you think any of these dresses are an absolute NO. Both are outdoor summer weddings on farms and no dress code was provided.

    Normally I wouldn’t buy anything with a white background, but myself and my friends think these two blue/white floral dresses look mostly blue with a tiny bit of white. What do you think??

    I think the pink and green dresses are also nice but I’m worried they look too casual, but maybe that’s fine for the wedding setting on a farm?

    Since I ordered everything online, and haven’t decided to keep any yet; I haven’t asked the brides yet for their approval. I don’t want to bug them if none of these dresses fit when they arrive.

    Thanks in advance for any feedback:)

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  3. chigirl00 Avatar

    I would not go too mini.. the blue is fine for a wedding

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  5. Special_Fig5123 Avatar

    I love the long blue and the long pink and would personally be okay with both

    But you never know what the couple would say, again people on here have really shown me stuff I didn’t know would be an issue at a wedding haha (luckily I ask my friends if the dress is ok before the weddings)

    So I would go with the pink. Then you’re safe from the hints of white under the blue, plus it won’t be too short for the couples taste.

  6. simplyexistingnow Avatar

    So I think a lot of this really kind of falls back on knowing the couple that you’re going to the wedding for. Personally I would stay away from anything midi/ short. Also I would probably stay away from anything that has a white background even the white and blue. I know this is something that guests would definitely be judging you on in a lot of scenarios especially since they’re most likely going to have guests of all ages a lot of the older over 50 crowd will be judging you if you’re wearing a dress that has any color white in it. The pink one is okay but I personally don’t like any of them for a wedding guest.